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Monday, 31 October 2016
Woman buys a house by getting all 20 of her boyfriends to get her an iPhone
Source :Metro.co.uk
Getting together enough money to buy a house can take years to do.
Get a second job, eat out less, downgrade your technology – these are just some of the things you can do to save.
iPhone thieves gouged man’s eyes to get his phone
Or you can do what this woman did and come up with an ingenious plan to get someone else to pay for it.
The woman, known only as Xiaoli, from Shenzhen in China, managed to raise around £14,000 by convincing her boyfriends, all 20 of them, to each buy her an iPhone 7.
She then sold the phones via the website Hui Shou Nao and made 115,010 Chine yuan (£13,991), which she then used to buy a house in the countryside.
The woman is believed to be from Shenzhen in southern China
Sharing Xiaoli’s story on a blogging forum, a user called Proud Qiaoba, said: ‘Everyone in the office is talking about this now.
‘Who knows what her boyfriends think now this news has become public.’
According to Proud Qiaoba, who appears to work with Xiaoli, the woman is not from a wealthy family and her ‘mum is a housewife and her dad is a migrant worker, and she is the oldest daughter.’
‘Her parents are getting old and she might be under a lot pressure hoping to buy them a house… But it’s still unbelievable that she could use this method!’
There’s a secret one-handed iPhone keyboard you’re not allowed to use
The woman allegedly sold the 20 iPhone 7s to the website for around £700 each, which Hui Shou Bao confirmed to the BBC.
The story was widely shared on the Chinese social network Weibo, where more than 13 million comments were posted using the hashtag ’20 mobiles for a house’.
Some people criticised her and called her ‘shameless’ but most praised her for her ingenuity.
One woman wrote: ‘I can’t even find one boyfriend. She can actually find 20 boyfriends at the same time and even get them to buy her an iPhone 7. Just want to ask her to teach me such skills.’
Mercy Johnson Kicks Off Talk Show About Her Marriage
The Nollywood star who just recently reached a million followers on Instagram has announced to fans about a new project she has which is a talk show.
While thanking her followers for the million milestone, the star actress of 'The Scorpion God' and '30 days in Atlanta' wrote;
“I’m inviting u to subscribe and view teasers of my upcoming show which has started with my autobiography: Mercy. Marriage, cooking and kids.”
“The talk starts to air in December. Especially for young marriages like mine, singles and teenagers. Let’s all grow together as better human beings.”
Adele Opens Up About Postpartum Depression
It's rare for Adele to open up about her personal life but as the December cover girl for #VanityFair, she lets her guard down and discusses motherhood, relationships and her lifelong battle with depression. "I have a very dark side. I'm very available to depression," she admitted. "I can slip in and out of it quite easily. It started when my granddad died, when I was about 10, and while I never had a suicidal thought, I have been in therapy, lots." #Adele says that after she gave birth to her son Angelo Konecki, she struggled and had to "snap out" of postpartum depression.
That fear of becoming depressed again is why she's hesitant to have another baby. "My knowledge of postpartum—or post-natal, as we call it in England—is that you don't want to be with your child; you're worried you might hurt your child; you're worried you weren't doing a good job," she said. "But I was obsessed with my child. I felt very inadequate; I felt like I'd made the worst decision of my life." She continued, "It can come in many different forms...You're constantly trying to make up for stuff when you're a mom." Her entire life revolves around her son...and she wouldn't want it any other way. "I don't mind, because of the love I feel for him," she admitted. "I don't care if I don't ever get to do anything for myself again." Mommies, can you relate?
Source: baller alert
Is Khloe Kardashian Engaged to Tristan Thompson?
Khloe Kardashian is sporting major bling on a very important finger!
The Keeping Up With the Kardashians star was in Cleveland on Tuesday evening to support her basketball star boyfriend
Tristan Thompson as his Cleveland Cavaliers took on the New York Knicks. After the Cavs defeated the Knicks, Khloe posted a photo of her and Tristan's hands on Instagram that sparked engagement rumors.
In the photo, Khloe is wearing diamond rings on her engagement finger (in addition to a Cavs band!). So does this mean Khloe and Tristan are engaged
This is so false, a source confirms to E! News. Though Khloe is "very into" Tristan and the relationship is "becoming more serious," the two aren't set to marry just yet!
Dwyane Wade Sends Sexy Birthday Message to Wife Gabrielle Union -- See the Pic!
Dwyane Wade left little to the imagination when wishing his wife, Gabrielle Union, a happy 44th birthday Saturday on Instagram -- but he wasn't the one who bared all.
Instead, the 34-year-old NBA pro shared a throwback pic of Union baring all -- tastefully, of course.
"Radar Radar oooooohhhh you was on my Radar!!! From then to now. Happy Birthday ageless one," he captioned the racy photo.
The Chicago Bulls guard then went on to throw a little shade to the NBA, adding, "I would have gotten you something extravagant but I just got fined for 25grand. Set a brother back like a big dog BUT we will enjoy your day. I love you Mrs. Wade."
Wade was recently fined $25,000 after he made a throat-slashing gesture following a game-cinching three-pointer shot against the Boston Celtics, but he clearly wasn't about to let that dampen his wife's special day.
Tracee Ellis Ross, who also celebrated a birthday on Saturday, took a moment to wish the Bring It On actress a less-nekkid happy birthday via an epic Twitter video.
The Black-Ish star started off singing lyrics from The Doors' "Hello, I Love You" before launching into a message for her birthday buddy. "Hey, how you doin'? Guess what today is," she said. "It's Gabrielle Union's birthday. It's like a national holiday. It's also my birthday, but whatevs, OK?... Listen, happy birthday, Gabrielle Union. I love you."
"You're gorgeous, you're hot, you're talented, you're funny, you're hot, you're gorgeous, you're talented, and I love you. You rock," she added, before urging fans to go out and vote.
Sunday, 30 October 2016
Everything We Know About Mariah Carey & James Packer's Breakup
New details are emerging in the split between Mariah Carey and James Packer.
On Thursday it was revealed that the couple ended their relationship after about a year and a half together. Carey and Packer first met at a movie premiere in Aspen, Colo. in 2014 and Packer
proposed in Jan. 2016 with a 35-carat diamond ring that was " so heavy " Carey couldn't lift her arm up.
After news of their split broke, E! News learned from a source close to the couple the reason why Carey " had to leave" Packer and how his behavior played a role in their split.
Source: E news
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Since she’s been old enough to date, #KhloeKardashian has primarily dated black men. That’s why it is no surprise that she would openly share her thoughts about interracial dating, especially now that it is rumored she is engaged to Cleveland Cavaliers Baller, #TristanThompson. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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In a post on her app Friday, a fan named Kelsey Wells asked the 32 year old reality star for dating advice. “Interracial dating in today’s society is still looked down upon by many people,” Kelsey Wells, wrote to Khloe. “I am a woman who dates a man. Why can’t it just be that simple? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Wells says that living in the south, whenever she and her boyfriend are out “there are always stares,” and “people often make rude comments and gestures toward us.” Even so, she writes, “I brush it off because I know the man I love is HUMAN.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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“Thank you Kelsey for talking about this important issue,” the Keeping Up With the Kardashians star wrote. “I don’t support racism or discrimination of any kind and I especially don’t understand why some people are still against interracial relationships.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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“Like who the F cares anymore?!” Kardashian went on. “It’s so crazy because we’re all human beings capable of love so why does skin color have anything to do with it?” #interacialdatingj
Saturday, 29 October 2016
Tiwa Savage signals reconciliation possibility with hubby .
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About six months after her marital squabble took Nigerians by storm, it appears that Tiwa Savage, is ready to mend fences with her estranged hubby, Tunji Balogun aka Tee Billz, Vanguardngr reports.
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According to sources close to the singer, her body language indicates that she’s ready to reconcile with her baby’s daddy. Already, there have been meetings between both families aimed at a peaceful reconciliation.
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Tiwa is also said to have been meeting with older couples and counsellors who have been advising her to give her marriage another chance in respect of the ‘for better, for worse’ vows she took at the altar.
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A Vanguardngr source stated that, “You can take my word for it that a reconciliation is in the offing between Tiwa and Teebillz. She has told people close to her that she misses Tunji, and she wants him back in her life.
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Also, as their son, Jamal (Jam Jam) is growing older, Tiwa wants to ensure that he has a father figure around. Of course, she has also given a condition that Teebillz gets help so that all the issues that led to his public meltdown will not happen again.”
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However, there are also reports that Tiwa’s mom was badly hurt by the negative things Teebillz said about her on Instagram, but she’s ready to forgive and forget all because all she really wants is her daughter’s happiness.
Source: vanguard newspaper .com
5 things you need to know before making an older lady your Wife
She might be only two years older or ten. It doesn’t matter. Dating an older woman comes with it’s own perks and it’s a whole new bag of tricks you’re going to have to contend with.
This is a good thing – but there are a couple of things you should pay attention to if you want to lock down the good deal that is your older woman and make an honest woman out of her (relatively speaking).
This is a good thing – but there are a couple of things you should pay attention to if you want to lock down the good deal that is your older woman and make an honest woman out of her (relatively speaking).
Whisper sweet somethings in her ear
If you’ve ever dated or even been in a no-strings-attached relationship with an older woman, you’ll know that she’s smart, sophisticated, and she can hold her own in a conversation – and then some. Whereas younger women may be more up-to-date with current trends or the latest movie or other somewhat frivolous goings-on, an older woman is far more intellectually advanced.
If this sort of woman turns you on, keep reading. Quite literally.
You’re going to have to keep up with current events and politics, and whisper more than sweet nothings in her ear. She’s smart, worldly-wise and sophisticated. And the truth is, if she sees you as a boy toy, she’s never going to get serious with you.
So become her intellectual equal and she’ll be eating out of your hand.
She doesn’t need you – she wants you
A financially independent woman by your side is a huge turn on for many guys, not just men who love to date older women. It’s incredibly attractive and gratifying to know that, should anything ever happen, she can hold her own.
The whole “damsel in distress” thing is so not her scene. Though she can be incredibly soft and feminine, chances are your older woman has been through at least one major relationship (or even a divorce) where money was involved. And it taught her enough to know she has to keep a tight handle on hers.
Now, she may love being submissive in the bedroom as a result of this but, hey, you’re not complaining, are you?
She takes care of her physical body and she expects you to as well
Besides meeting her online, do you know the next most popular place to meet older women? A gym or a health foods store. The next time you enter your local gym or a fitness outlet, look around: you’ll see some of the fittest, most attractive women there.
There’s no need to jack up and pump iron STAT. If you want to show her your serious, you’ll need to spend time simply taking care of yourself. What it comes down to for an older woman, especially if you want to get into a serious relationship with her, is if she can see a long-term future with you. And that relates to shared values.
If maintaining personal physical fitness is a priority for her, you should plan to make it one for yourself as well. And the added perk? You can get a discount on a fitness class membership or take as many couples yoga sessions asyou want
Look, an older woman has previous priorities and these include but are not limited to: her friends, her rewarding career, her kids, if she has any, fitness classes, book clubs, salsa lessons and other social engagements.
She had a whole life before you came along and she’ll keep on having it even if you’re in a relationship with her. Don’t expect your woman to sit at home and wait for you.
To be the main man in her life, you have to have a life outside her and outside the relationship. This is actually healthy for both of you and, when you think about it, you could use the breathing room, couldn’t you?
The point is that your relationship will be stronger when you each have time apart as well as together.
Make what’s important to her, important to you
At the end of the day, your older woman is just as excited by the thought of you being attracted to her as you are about her. For all the perks of being with an older woman, you can bet she feels just as sexy and desirable because you’re in her life.
But if you want to make your relationship with her a sure thing, you’ve got to get beyond just desire. Pay attention to what she likes because it’s all in the little things.
If you notice she loves an organized room, make sure to keep it clean for her.
If you see her kids are her world, interact with them, on their level and keep them safe. There’s nothing sexier than a man who is great with kids.
But for your woman, to see a man who’s not her kids’ father step up to the plate and bond with them?
Friday, 28 October 2016
They Started from the bottom now they are here!!! 16 years is no beans.
Nigerian comedian celebrates this duo on their anniversary on IG...
They Started from the bottom now they are here!!! 16 years is no beans. Congratulations to @omonioboli and @nnamdioboli. This love is forever.
The actress herself shared a photo to celebrate
She shared the photo with the caption:
“Do you know what today is? It’s our anniversary, It’s been 16 years baby! About 17 from this picture when you came to see me on one of your many weekend trips to
Uniben@nnamdioboli #MyForever How can someone love so unconditionally and completely? With you, I can almost understand how much God loves us. I don’t even know if I love myself as much as you love me. Your loves completes me, it strengthens me and makes me believe in myself. Thank you for loving me for this long. Ps: You asked for another child yesterday, I will consider it (I’m scared though lol) I love you forever my voltron
They Started from the bottom now they are here!!! 16 years is no beans. Congratulations to @omonioboli and @nnamdioboli. This love is forever.
The actress herself shared a photo to celebrate
She shared the photo with the caption:
“Do you know what today is? It’s our anniversary, It’s been 16 years baby! About 17 from this picture when you came to see me on one of your many weekend trips to
Uniben@nnamdioboli #MyForever How can someone love so unconditionally and completely? With you, I can almost understand how much God loves us. I don’t even know if I love myself as much as you love me. Your loves completes me, it strengthens me and makes me believe in myself. Thank you for loving me for this long. Ps: You asked for another child yesterday, I will consider it (I’m scared though lol) I love you forever my voltron
Blac Chyna responds to partenity scandal, slams reports & supposed baby daddy
Blac Chyna has finally defended herself against allegations that Rob Kardashian is not the real father of her unborn daughter, a day after photos emerged showing her kissing a man named Pilot Jones. Read what she wrote on her IG page below.
Ok let’s state facts ! I been quiet for too long! So JC Pilot Jones whatever the fuck his name is has already tried to put out a story saying that he’s the potential father of my child really Nigga ?!?!?! Let me start off by saying this young man Is “GAY” !!!
The only reason we took those pictures other than me trying to be a good friend was so he could send it to his boyfriend to make him like jealous & say that he’s going back to girls! Mind you at the time I THOUGHT THIS WAS MY FRIEND and I didn’t see a problem with it!!! This was over two years ago people !!! I never had sex with him ! NEVER EVER! Nothing ever happened past these pics.
Mind you if you really look at the picture, look at my right hand it doesn’t have my “Future” tattoo next to that the fucking pictures was taken with the ring light!!! Staged Af!
But now I understand why you put these pictures out ! Ohhh because you have a song with Trina you trying to get your fucking name popping ?!?
Or are you mad at the fact that I did my Chymoji app without you dumbass JC ?!?? Your greedy ass wanted a cut of something that wasn’t yours and u came at my lawyer asking for crazy money !!! U really mad ?!?! Like you really stooped this low ?!?! Coming for a Bitch that’s due in a few days ! Really trying to start beef with my Fiancé !!! Your a fucking joke ! You just played yourself !
I would never fuck you !
Ur nasty ass fuck !
And everybody knows Chyna LIVES for the Community!
But let’s be for real … ur a dirty ass Punk !!!! You can never join my roster BITCH !!!!!!!
we cheat on our girlfriends but we dont want them to cheat on us- Chris brown talks about guys cheating in relationships
Chris brown posted this photo on IG, admitting a lot of things about guys act in a relationship (how they cheat but don't like to be cheated on)
It reads;
We cheat on our girlfriends but we don't want them to cheat on us. You know why? Because we know cheating is wrong! We cheat for sex,just to fuck but when a woman cheats she cheats for love and affection. She cheats with a Guy that can potentially replace you. We cheat the most but a woman cheat the best. We dish it out but we can't take it back. We act like it's the end of the world when we get cheated on. Woman are not afraid to love,commit and be loyal but the problem sometimes is us Men.
That's real talk chris 👍
It reads;
We cheat on our girlfriends but we don't want them to cheat on us. You know why? Because we know cheating is wrong! We cheat for sex,just to fuck but when a woman cheats she cheats for love and affection. She cheats with a Guy that can potentially replace you. We cheat the most but a woman cheat the best. We dish it out but we can't take it back. We act like it's the end of the world when we get cheated on. Woman are not afraid to love,commit and be loyal but the problem sometimes is us Men.
That's real talk chris 👍
Couples, please fight to make love work. Pride & ego is the devils work" -Tyrese Gibson
Model and actor, Tyrese Gibson, took to his IG page to implore couples all over the world to give love a chance and make their relationships work. He shared a photo of newly married couple, Ciara and her husband Russell Wilson and wrote:
Say whatever you wanna say........ I'm strong, I'm independent, I can do bad all by myself, I don't need no man I'm good.... fellas...... I'm out here gettin this money I don't GAF about a B?? Still clubbin every night, popping bottles with random models...... putting chicks on flights every other day to fill that empty void.... smashing every model, video vixen you can....... but something IN you still feels lonely........... there IS a suck thing as having a women IN your bed and still feeling alone cause other than what y'all are doing for each other IN that bed you really could care less....... because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely...... but don't independence your way into loneliness....... this is grown man and grown woman season - Pride and ego is the devils work..... I hope you call him or her back and take that more serious..... everyone wants someone to all their own....... I am praying for all couples, engagements, and marriages I'm celebrating LOVE around he world..... I'm begging you please FIGHT to make love work.... don't let her leave fellas after you KNOW you're the one who made the mistake.....: team no pride and no ego..... God bless you!!!!
Omg,blanc chyna spotted making out with a guy that isnt Rob kardashian
It's thought the pregnant star grew close to the actor before meeting R
AN image has emerged showing Blac Chyna kissing actor and singer Pilot Jones.
The 28-year-old , who is about to give birth to her first baby with fiancé Rob Kardashian , was linked to Pilot earlier this year when she was on a break from Rob.
Blac Chyna was pictured kissing Pilot Jones – it is unclear when the image was taken
The former stripper is believed to have dated Pilot prior to meeting Rob and falling pregnant – and it’s thought she rekindled that connection during one of her many breaks from Rob this year.
Back in March the now–heavily pregnant star was seen partying with Pilot in Atlanta, according to Radar Online .
However it is unclear whether this image, which is likely to upset Rob, was taken then or prior to her romance with the Keeping Up With The Kardashian ’s star.
Chyna is currently expecting a baby with Rob Kardashian
An insider told Radar: “[They] kissed and made out every time they saw each other.
“They even started to develop feelings too! It was a flirty type of relationship, and they hung out every day.”
A rep for Pilot previously said that he and Chyna was just ‘very good friends’ however, according to reports he was unaware of her relationship with Rob until they went public.
The picture comes after Chyna and Rob did a paternity test to prove that he is indeed the father of their baby girl.
Blac Chyna celebrates her baby shower with her son and a stripper pole
Revealing she wanted to silence the rumours surrounding their relationship, Chyna told her mates during the series finale of Rob & Chyna: "This might sound f--ked up but a part of me wants to take a paternity test.
"I know it's Rob's child, I've only been with Rob since we started dating. It's just to shut down rumors on the internet saying that it might be two other people."
Rob and Blac had a number of splits during her pregnancy
It's the first day of #fall ---
A photo posted by Pilot Jones (@...
The results came back revealing that Rob was the father but it wasn’t quite accurate enough for him.
“It says 99.9%” he said. “How do we get 100% probability?”
He later said: “Knowing 100% if this baby’s mine or not, yeah it would take a lot of weight off my shoulders.
Wednesday, 26 October 2016
Question for today(Please read this carefully )
Pls Read:
A man before leaving for work, left a letter on the dining table for his wife. Chores around the house kept the woman from seeing the letter until about 12 noon. When she finally chanced on the letter she was so excited to see that her husband had taken time to write her a letter. She kissed the paper when she saw “my beautiful wife” at the top, hugged it when she saw “I love you with all my heart” at the bottom, and sniffed it when she realized it smelled of her husband’s perfume.
Out of excitement, and without even bothering to read the content of the letter, she made up her mind to cook him his favorite meal for dinner that night. She quickly rushed to the kitchen and got to work. After cooking and setting the table, she went to the wash room and took a shower, put on her most attractive night gown and dressed the bed.
Just as she was about to finish laying the bed her husband walked into the house. When she heard him come in she went out to welcome him. To her surprise, her husband was very furious when he saw her. She became very confused and asked why he wouldn’t even let her welcome him with a hug but instead have that angry look on his face.
The husband asked, “Did you read the letter I left you on the table?”
The woman responded, “Oh yes I saw it. That’s why I went through all the trouble to prepare your favorite meal for you. Thank you so much honey, it was sweet of you.”
She leaned in to give him a kiss but he pushed her away to her surprise.
The husband went on, “If you did, then why haven’t you done any of the things I instructed you to do?”
The man went inside and came out again quickly with an already packed suit case. He headed straight for the door and said to his wife, “See you in 7 days.”
The woman stood there confused but before she could utter a word, the door had slammed behind him.
She went back to the dining table to take a second look at the letter.
It read……
My beautiful wife, My company has asked 4 colleges and myself to go on a seven day trip to Dubai for a training program. They said that we can bring along our wives and I thought this will be the best opportunity for us to have the honeymoon we never did after we got married.
I have already packed a suit case for myself, so please pack yours. Our flight leaves at exactly 7 pm so I will be home at 6 o’clock for us to go to the airport. No need to cook dinner since there will be food on the plane. Just be prepare to go as soon as I get back. Please be ready before I get back so we don't miss the flight. I Love you with all my heart.
If you were this woman, what will you do ?
Let me be the first to comment, hmmm..if this happened to me I'll feel really bad and try and apologise to my husband and I'll book a flight to meet up with him in Dubai.... (Is my answer resonsable enough??)
Let me see your comment guys....
A man before leaving for work, left a letter on the dining table for his wife. Chores around the house kept the woman from seeing the letter until about 12 noon. When she finally chanced on the letter she was so excited to see that her husband had taken time to write her a letter. She kissed the paper when she saw “my beautiful wife” at the top, hugged it when she saw “I love you with all my heart” at the bottom, and sniffed it when she realized it smelled of her husband’s perfume.
Out of excitement, and without even bothering to read the content of the letter, she made up her mind to cook him his favorite meal for dinner that night. She quickly rushed to the kitchen and got to work. After cooking and setting the table, she went to the wash room and took a shower, put on her most attractive night gown and dressed the bed.
Just as she was about to finish laying the bed her husband walked into the house. When she heard him come in she went out to welcome him. To her surprise, her husband was very furious when he saw her. She became very confused and asked why he wouldn’t even let her welcome him with a hug but instead have that angry look on his face.
The husband asked, “Did you read the letter I left you on the table?”
The woman responded, “Oh yes I saw it. That’s why I went through all the trouble to prepare your favorite meal for you. Thank you so much honey, it was sweet of you.”
She leaned in to give him a kiss but he pushed her away to her surprise.
The husband went on, “If you did, then why haven’t you done any of the things I instructed you to do?”
The man went inside and came out again quickly with an already packed suit case. He headed straight for the door and said to his wife, “See you in 7 days.”
The woman stood there confused but before she could utter a word, the door had slammed behind him.
She went back to the dining table to take a second look at the letter.
It read……
My beautiful wife, My company has asked 4 colleges and myself to go on a seven day trip to Dubai for a training program. They said that we can bring along our wives and I thought this will be the best opportunity for us to have the honeymoon we never did after we got married.
I have already packed a suit case for myself, so please pack yours. Our flight leaves at exactly 7 pm so I will be home at 6 o’clock for us to go to the airport. No need to cook dinner since there will be food on the plane. Just be prepare to go as soon as I get back. Please be ready before I get back so we don't miss the flight. I Love you with all my heart.
If you were this woman, what will you do ?
Let me be the first to comment, hmmm..if this happened to me I'll feel really bad and try and apologise to my husband and I'll book a flight to meet up with him in Dubai.... (Is my answer resonsable enough??)
Let me see your comment guys....
Brad Pitt has one big fear post Angelina Jolie divorce
Ex-couple Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie
One month has already passed since Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie shock the media with their split. Since then, Brad has been forced to express what he feels despite reports that he is into alcohol and drugs, which are somewhat claimed as the reason for the divorce
According to sources close to Pitt, this is the most difficult point in his life that's why he is doing all his best and is really cooperating with Angelina Jolie just to see his kids.
But the actor has one big fear regarding the effects of this divorce and this has something to do with his kids. He has this feeling that his children are slipping out of his knowledge. This simply breaks his heart and devastates him completely.
According to yahoo.com , he is spending all the day and even half the night just to call and text people in order to get help and advice.
It can be recalled that in the course of the divorce, Angelina Jolie has been granted the temporary custody of Maddox, Pax, Zahara, Shiloh, and twins Vivienne and Knox. The actor is really upset and shattered by this and that he is very much willing to do everything just to prove that he also deserves joint custody of their six kids.
This divorce has really struck home for Brad Pitt and that he realizes that his children are the most important things in his life.
He doesn't mind whatever happens to his career or anything because being with his kids is all that matters for him at this moment.
Meanwhile, it has been reported also that Brad is doing what he is told to do in order to show his dedication to the family. He would do anything just to see his kids and that he will do his best to boost his chances by acting like a model citizen.
It seems like Brad Pitt's life is on hold until he gets his children back.
Brad Pitt was really devastated with what this divorce has caused him and Angelina Jolie is said to be rethinking her ways on how to deal with him in court.
Tuesday, 25 October 2016
Music is best therapy for bad break up,so here are the Best Breakup Songs of all times
Listen to the Ultimate Breakup Playlist
There are different ways to handle a breakup, depending on the situation, of course. But whether you're wallowing in tears because you got blindsided or giving out high fives for finally letting go of the jerk, one thing's for sure: music makes it all better. Here are
50 songs for every type of split.
1. "Since U Been Gone," Kelly Clarkson
2. "Forget You," Cee Lo Green
3. "Irreplaceable," Beyoncé
4. "Don't Speak," No Doubt
5. "Cry Me a River," Justin Timberlake
6. "Tainted Love," Soft Cell
7. "You Oughta Know," Alanis Morissette
8. "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together," Taylor Swift
9. "Stronger," Britney Spears
10. "Burn," Usher
11. "Someone Like You," Adele
12. "Smile," Lily Allen
13. "Tears Dry On Their Own," Amy Winehouse
14. "So What," Pink
15. "Roses," Outkast
16. "Fighter," Christina Aguilera
17. "My Favorite Mistake," Sheryl Crow
18. "I'm Gonna Be Alright," Jennifer Lopez
19. "Goodbye to You," Michelle Branch
20. "Too Little Too Late," JoJo
21. "I Hate This Part," The Pussycat Dolls
22. "Gives You Hell," The All-American Rejects
23. "Before He Cheats," Carrie Underwood
24. "Against All Odds," Phil Collins
25. "Mr. Brightside," The Killers
26. "Single Ladies," Beyoncé
27. "I Knew You Were Trouble," Taylor Swift
28. "Love Lost," Temper Trap
29. "Ain't No Sunshine," Bill Withers
30. "The Scientist," Coldplay
31. "Somebody That I Used to Know," Gotye
32. "You Were Meant For Me," Jewel
33. "Don't You Want Me," The Human League
34. "Heartbreaker," Pat Benatar
35. "Pictures of You," The Cure
36. "Skinny Love," Bon Iver
37. "Nothing Compares 2 U," Sinead O'Connor
38. "I Want You Back," Jackson 5
39. "Part of Me," Katy Perry
40. "My Immortal," Evanescence
41. "I Will Survive," Gloria Gaynor
42. "Heartless," Kanye West
43. "Bye Bye Bye," *NSYNC
44. "Ex-Factor," Lauryn Hill
45. "Everybody Hurts," R.E.M.
46. "End of the Road," Boyz II Men
47. "Un-Break My Heart," Toni Braxton
48. "Always Be My Baby," Mariah Carey
49. "Strong Enough," Cher
50. "Mama's Broken Heart," Miranda Lambert
Source:popsugar.com
wow.... Check this out,Falz and simi are really a couple.(see photos to prove)
– Rapper Falz may be having secret love affair with X3M Music singer Simi
– The pair has been spotted together in recent times during and after performances
– Though Falz’s not confirmed their affair in any interview, his gesture via Instagram on Wednesday, May 4 says a lot about their relationship Rapper Folarin ‘Falz’ Falana has sparked off more speculations that he is having an affair with singer Simi after he posted a photo on Instagram on Wednesday, May 4.
The kiss emoji following the post says a lot about the relationship between both entertainers. Recall that in April 2015 Falz spoke to Channels TV on several issues concerning his career, creativity as well as relationship with the X3m Music singer. Folarin has made several hit songs over the last few years and one conspicuous character in his music videos is X3M pop singer Simi with whom he made Soldier not to forget he blessed her song Jamb Question prior to this time.
Hmmmm,what are this two up to ?
This two talented Nigerian artists have been breaking the Internet and putting all of us in suspense,Are they cooking up a new song or songs or maybe they are actually an item. Well,we have to wait to hear from them what is really going on, so you all should try and chill and wait till that finally day they let us know what's going on.....See more photos....
They have also been spotted hanging out at several functions during and after performances but he insists there is nothing romantic going on between them. He said of their relationship in the Channels interview: “At this current moment we are not dating but you never know what the future holds. I will just leave it there.”
However, with the new picture it is safe to say there’s something going on between both musicians. On her part, Simi has been linked with YBNL singer Adekunle Gold several times in the past but she refuses to confirm this whenever asked.
Falz is a Nigerian rapper, song writer and brand ambassador. His father is a respected Nigerian lawyer and Human Rights Activist.
This wedding decor is so heavenly
Shot by @oye_diran Floral design and production by @Lilyvevents venue
How Long Should You Wait to Have Sex In A New Relationship?
Some people will prefer to wait till their wedding night before having sex,believing that's right spiritually or just their decision but this post is for those who are ready to get intimate before and even after their wedding night.
Having sex with a new partner is a considerable dating milestone and there are few moments as significant in terms of excitement and intrigue. For some people, hopping in the sack on the first date is common practice while others opt to wait for weeks, months or even until marriage.
Research suggests that while the first kiss usually takes place by the second date, we wait an average of four to six dates before having sex and 14 before saying, "I love you."
However, since sex means different things to different people, these averages don’t necessarily help individual daters to determine when the time is right. While some experts will caution daters against having sex too soon and others suggest that you wait as long as you possibly can, I’m of a different philosophy.
However, answering one simple question may help to steer you in the right direction: Do you want to have sex with this person? If the answer is yes and you feel emotionally and practically prepared, I would be less concerned with how many dates you’ve been on and more focused on getting my hands on some good quality condoms, lube and clean bed sheets.
Remember: you are the only expert that matters. The rest of us are just here to offer resources and support.
Here are a few perspectives from active daters that might help you to determine what approach works best for you:
I have sex right away!: “If I’m attracted to him, I don’t wait more than a few dates. You might think I should wait longer, but sex is important to me, so I don’t want to hold out only to find out that we’re not compatible. I’m a busy woman!” Trina, 37
I wait until I know I’m the only one: “Call me old fashioned, but I’m not in this for the hook-up. I casually ask if she’s dating anyone else before I even consider sleeping with her. Sometimes this happens on the third date and other times, I’ve waited until at least ten dates. In my experience, they’re willing to wait.” Chris, 25
It depends…: “I hate rules. They’re made to be broken. I’ve had sex on the first date and I’ve dated for months without even coming close and I don’t think either approach has really impacted my relationships.” Greig, 29
Lucky Number 7: “I guess I’m not really an active dater anymore since we moved in together last month, but I made lots of mistakes in past relationships including having sex too early. I just wasn’t ready and it complicated things. This time I waited seven dates and it seems to be working out!” Sharleen, 32
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This bridal party is freaking out in this viral photo for a very good reason!
We’ve seen it all — dog weddings, themed weddings, traditional weddings — and each ceremony trying to top the next can be a bit exhausting for observers. And while we were just thinking that we needed a little something to organically shake things up, we weren’t quite expecting this bridal party’s photo to do the trick.
What appeared to be yet another post-nuptial photo shoot for the bridal party, almost ended up in a dramatic ride to the hospital for Birmingham, Alabama
photographer Leslie Hollingsworth. While she was going above and beyond to deliver the most elegant bridal photos to the newlyweds, Hollingsworth almost got pummeled by a passing car — and she captured the party’s reactions on camera!
Look closely, the bridal party is completely freaking out!
The look on the bridesmaids' faces when a car almost runs me down.. But at least the bride and groom look happy!!
The looks on the bridesmaids’ faces as Hollingsworth was just steps away from becoming one with the road are priceless! And the newlyweds being able to keep their composure during the fiasco says a lot to us about how they’ll handle obstacles in the future — in complete composed solidarity.
Hollingsworth told the local Birmingham news station WBRC that she “thought it was hysterical,” showing that she’s a pro when it comes to keeping it cool during really scary times. We’re so glad she’s OK!
We can’t say that we would’ve handled the event as casually as she did.
Monday, 24 October 2016
13 signs that your relationship is heading for a spilt.
What are the signs that your relationship is in major trouble?
Below is a list of some of the things to look out for (though I'd rather you look at them as signs that your marriage or relationship is in need of intensive care) - and they count for either one of you:
1. Your communication level reduces by the day, You are not talking much about personal ‘stuff’ - you have little idea what is going on in your partner's life.
2. When your patner refuses to change a bad habit and You're complaining about the same things over and over again.
3. You can't come to an understanding or agreement over important issues (if you're still at this stage - you have to find out where the problem is from)
4. You end up feeling frustrated, angry and hurt, whenever you try to talk about them
5. You're feeling increasingly depressed - if you both feel like this on account of your relationship then your feelings are definite warnings signs of a break up
6. You're becoming increasingly irritable and/or withdrawn.
7. You're unhappy and may have even mentioned or threatened your partner with separation.
8. You're going out more frequently or staying longer at work and you're increasingly leading separate lives
9. At least one of you is having an affair,this means the level of love and respect you had for your partner has reduced and you feel you need someone new.
10. You're acting ‘out of character’, or perhaps you have 'not been yourself' lately,you always have mood swings when your with your lover and you become very cranky.
11. You're arguing more frequently as a couple and perhaps even treating each other with contempt
12. You are 'stonewalling' - ignoring your partner when you're miffed, pretending that he or she doesn't exist (wow, what a bad habit!)
13. You're inconsistent - you make promises about being there and then make yourself scarce
3 Years After Messy Divorce Nollywood Actress Chika Ike Finds Love Again (Juicy Details)
In August 2013, Delectable Nollywood actress, Chika Ike finalized herdivorce with her estranged husband, Tony Eberiri over alleged grounds of infidelity, domestic violence and more.
The movie star is excited to have found love again and she tells Kemi Filani Blog all about it and more in this exclusive interview…Enjoy!
Is Chika Ike a fulfilled woman yet?
Honestly, not yet. There are certain things I haven’t achieved. Everyday I wake up, I want to get to the zenith of my career, but all takes one step at a time. I’m still hoping to achieve more which would eventually make me a fulfilled woman.
We know you have finished the season 2 of your TV Reality show, African Diva, which just started airing, is there another pet projects you are working on?
Of course Yes! I have my movie project coming up next year. We are still working on it. But for now we are focused on African Diva.
What’s new about the African Diva reality show season 2?
We had 3 girls each from four African countries and the rest from Nigeria. The season 2 was thought through. It has better picture quality,the girls more organized, the task more interesting, the house more structured. Lots to learn about from this season 2.
You have been in Nollywood for a long time, how do you re-invent yourself to be always relevant?
Life is all about growth. The day you stopped growing, you start dying. The ability of not been satisfied, the thought of failure, scares me. It makes me to want to do for myself everyday.
How has life been generally for you as a Nigerian actress?
I started acting since 2005. I knew there was a world I could conquer back then beyond my father’s bakery wall at Ikotun- Egbe area of Lagos State.
It has been 11 years has been very rewarding.
But for a while now, your face has been scarce in movies, have you shunned acting on other people’s jobs?
Well, my latest movie is still in the cinema; Miss Teacher. I released it last year for the cinemas.
Adding to that, I have been busy with my pet projects and doing a lot of traveling too. But I have done about 4 movies this year, 2016 for Iroko TV.
What’s the striking thing you want to be remembered for in Nollywood, just like AY the comedian who has broken bonds and also made it to the Guinness book of World’s records?
Firstly, I tap into AY’s blessing, (laughs). Honestly, I want to get to higher places in life, but we all know that no matter how far and wide you project, you can only get there by the grace of God.
From my recent experiences, I know it’s all about God and his plans for me. I know he would crown my efforts and hard work with great success.
Would ever go under the knife to correct or enhance any part of your body?
No! I won’t. I’m comfortable in my skin and looks but that doesn’t mean I am against those that did or want to go through plastic surgeries.
I’m beautifully made by God, so there’s no need to go under the knife to tamper with any part of my body.
After what you went through in your first marriage, do you still want to give love and marriage a second chance?
Marriage is a beautiful institution. I will never talk down on marriage because it’s something I still look forward to. It’s what every average woman hopes for. But the thing is, right now, i’m focused on my career.
But do you have a special someone in your life?
Yes I do (blushes..). I have a very special person in my life right now.
Is he from the movie industry?
Well, that’s all I can say about my relationship; I have a special someone. His profile doesn’t matter to you right now.
On social media, especially Instagram, how do you react to critics that trail your posts?
Some years back, it bothered me a lot. But right now, I have learnt to develop thick skin for such negative comments and critics. I don’t waste my time responding to them. I just sieve; the good, bad and ugly ones.
I take note of the good ones, do what I need to do with them and discard the rest.
Your mum was a pastor before she passed on some months ago, how did she influence your life?
My mum was a very strong woman. There’s something she always says, don’t let anyone intimidate you; be confident. So, she’s the kind of mum that won’t you fail. She preached the gospel all over the world; American, London, everywhere. She was like a role model to me. She shaped me into the woman I am today.
How is this present bad economy tagged ‘recession affecting you?
To be honest, it’s affecting everyone. Businesses are folding up everyday. We just have to go through all these for a reason. Americans too went through recession. But it’s the ability to survive after the recession that matter.
I have strategy; I tell myself that I must survive till the recession ends. I just have to look for ways to survive.
Was that why you went into Real Estate business?
Well, i’m a business woman as whole. I love doing business and I like generating funds for myself, so I can give out. I like to help people a lot. That’s my basic thing.
I do acting, I have a beauty store, and ventured into Real Estate, 5 years ago.
The Real Estate business is on the down low because of the recession.
Outrageous! 12-year-old boy marries 11-year-old cousin, father gives blessing
In Egypt, the news about a man marrying his 12-year-old son to his 11-year-old cousin as gone viral, as everyone talking, and he is being blasted for this irrational act.
An 12-year-old boy will marry his cousin, 11, after the groom-to-be’s father gave the couple’s engagement his blessing.
While family and friends celebrated Nasser Hassan’s eldest son’s lavish wedding, the father decided to double the joy by announcing the engagement. Egyptian law prohibits marriages for anyone under 18 and the decision for 12-year-old Omar and 11-year-old Gharam, to marry has sparked outrage among activists.
According to Al Watan newspaper, Hassan disclosed that there was nothing inappropriate about the couple, adding that it was only an engagement, not a marriage. A complaint has already been filed with the attorney general to investigate the incident and hold the parents accountable for this crime, as the girl will be deprived of equal chances to education, growth, and will isolate her from social spheres.
Egyptian law prohibits marriages for anyone under 18 and the decision for Omar, 12, and Gharam, 11, to marry has sparked outrage among activists.
Omar’s father brushed off any criticism, and said he is a free man and did nothing wrong. He said: “Omar has always loved Gharam so much that he used to say he will marry her when they grow up before any other man asks for her hand in marriage when she is older. He added that they will get married when they reach the legal age.
Sunday, 23 October 2016
we have different types of girlfriends,check out the category your girlfriend falls in
Different Types of Girlfriends
There as many types of girlfriends as there are types of boyfriends.
Fortunately for you, we are not going to break them down according to their sun signs! We shall however, tell you more about the various kinds of girlfriends you are expected to come across in your dating life. Their nuances, their positives, their obvious negatives and why they could be just the one’s for you. So read on, and you might just discover your type in this list.
1. Individualistic
This girlfriend is the one who has brains which she uses and who is culturally rooted. She wants her space, has a strong independent identity , cultivates opinions and cannot be pushed around. At the same time, she knows her boundaries; she accepts the good as well the bad that comes with living in a male-dominated society and has her head on her shoulders. She will be a sane partner; one who will respect your individuality as she treasures her own.
2. Domestic & Docile
She is the girlfriend who will always put her boyfriend ahead of her. She has opinions and a mind that she can use, but she chooses to stir the way her partner wishes her too. She is certainly not dumb, but she chooses to believe or has been raised in a manner which suggests that the man is alpha, omega and everything in between . This does not mean she will not put you in your place should you go overboard, but you can expect her to support you no matter what in whatever you chose to do or believe.
3. Demanding & Dominating
If this type is your girlfriend, then you can forget almost all other aspects of your life. She will demand that she be the centre of your universe and she will be dominating enough to make sure she gets what she demands . If your personality is not strong headed enough, she might over-ride you and your choices/decisions.
4. Possessive & Paranoid
Remember Lara Dutta from No Entry? Yes, that’s the type we are talking about. She is loving and caring and sweet. But then she also is possessive and compulsively cross-checks . You will find yourself answering the 'where you are' and 'what you are doing' questions 10 times a day, and still might have to face a barrage of questions after you’ve done all answering.
5. Money & More Money
This type is as old as humanity itself. She is with you for the money. She wants you to spend every time you’ll go out and won’t do with anything cheap. In case you run out of money, you can be sure she won’t be by your side anymore. She is not the one if you’re looking for love; a fling is what will work best.
These are just our versions of the various types of girlfriends that can be. Obviously, there is more to each girlfriend that what we’ve stated above. We certainly mean no harm or disrespect to women.
Source: mensxp.com
There as many types of girlfriends as there are types of boyfriends.
Fortunately for you, we are not going to break them down according to their sun signs! We shall however, tell you more about the various kinds of girlfriends you are expected to come across in your dating life. Their nuances, their positives, their obvious negatives and why they could be just the one’s for you. So read on, and you might just discover your type in this list.
1. Individualistic
This girlfriend is the one who has brains which she uses and who is culturally rooted. She wants her space, has a strong independent identity , cultivates opinions and cannot be pushed around. At the same time, she knows her boundaries; she accepts the good as well the bad that comes with living in a male-dominated society and has her head on her shoulders. She will be a sane partner; one who will respect your individuality as she treasures her own.
2. Domestic & Docile
She is the girlfriend who will always put her boyfriend ahead of her. She has opinions and a mind that she can use, but she chooses to stir the way her partner wishes her too. She is certainly not dumb, but she chooses to believe or has been raised in a manner which suggests that the man is alpha, omega and everything in between . This does not mean she will not put you in your place should you go overboard, but you can expect her to support you no matter what in whatever you chose to do or believe.
3. Demanding & Dominating
If this type is your girlfriend, then you can forget almost all other aspects of your life. She will demand that she be the centre of your universe and she will be dominating enough to make sure she gets what she demands . If your personality is not strong headed enough, she might over-ride you and your choices/decisions.
4. Possessive & Paranoid
Remember Lara Dutta from No Entry? Yes, that’s the type we are talking about. She is loving and caring and sweet. But then she also is possessive and compulsively cross-checks . You will find yourself answering the 'where you are' and 'what you are doing' questions 10 times a day, and still might have to face a barrage of questions after you’ve done all answering.
5. Money & More Money
This type is as old as humanity itself. She is with you for the money. She wants you to spend every time you’ll go out and won’t do with anything cheap. In case you run out of money, you can be sure she won’t be by your side anymore. She is not the one if you’re looking for love; a fling is what will work best.
These are just our versions of the various types of girlfriends that can be. Obviously, there is more to each girlfriend that what we’ve stated above. We certainly mean no harm or disrespect to women.
Source: mensxp.com
Thursday, 20 October 2016
Playing dead saved my life: 32-year-old woman stalked and beaten to a pulp by abusive ex after she walked out
When 32-year-old Grace Nyaguthii walked out on an abusive relationship and took her four-year-old son with her, she never expected to find herself in a hospital, with eyes swollen shut. She wrote;
"It wasn’t the first time; I had left before, but was sweet-talked into returning. I did so mainly because of our child. I did not want my son to grow up without a father. But the breaking point came when I realised there was more harm being done when I saw he was fearful in his own home. But leaving hardly ever gives one a clean break." she narrates from her bed at Nairobi Women's Hospital.
Weeks, months, and even years later, Grace was still dealing with her ex, who was still calling her and showing up at the places she would go.
"We both lived in South B, Nairobi, so it was easy for him to find me," she says. In fear, Grace moved to Nanyuki town with her son to get away from him. Last year, she came back to Nairobi to start a business and the harassment continued.
"At this point, I had learnt how to deal with him. I could never tell him ‘no’ outright because it would aggravate him. Instead, when we talked I would lie and promise that one day we would reunite as a family. The guise of friendship placated him and allowed me a bit of peace."
The situation took a bad turn last week, when in the midst of planning for her grandmother’s funeral, Boss, as he is known by his friends, found out where Grace lived.
"He came at 5.30am on the day of the burial after a night of drinking. He was to attend the funeral as well. Badging into my house, he moved around in a craze. He was surprised to see that I had moved on and was living well without him. I was in a hurry to leave as I had to go to the mortuary and told him so," she narrates.
He responded with a hard back-hand slap. "You’re telling me what to do because I’m in your house," he asked her. Enraged, he proceeded to push her until she fell on her bed, sat on her chest and rained blows on her face.
"He choked me as he beat me so that I couldn’t scream, saying he was going to kill me. He kept hitting and hitting, and I realised that the more I fought to get away, the harder the blows came. So, I decided to play dead. This saved my life," says Grace.
Contented that he had accomplished his mission, Boss ransacked her things, took the money she had and even her new clothes for the funeral, and left.
Grace on a hospital bed nursing extensive wounds, having just regained her eyesight as the beatings caused her face to swell so much, her eyes could not open, is angry, hurt, and wants justice, not just for her, but all other women who are going through what she has.
Source: mediamaxnetwork.ke
Tuesday, 18 October 2016
Mary J. Blige's estranged husband demands almost $130K per month in spousal support
Mary J. Blige's estranged husband, Martin Isaacs, is demanding a whole lot of money from her for a monthly spousal support as part of their divorce settlement.
Martin Isaacs who was Mary J's manager, filed for temporary spousal support, and according to the documents he filed, he says $129,319 per month is a reasonable amount to maintain his lifestyle.
His reason being that Mary J was the only breadwinner during their almost 13-year marriage and got him used to their lavish lifestyle. Adding that Mary J. earned between $1.5 to $5.1 million over the last 2 years.
He said he hasn't made any money since Mary fired him as her manager shortly after she filed for divorce. Even though the couple signed a Prep before they got married, Martin says it doesn't count because he signed it without a lawyer.
He also said Mary J has given him $85k since they separated.
shout out to all the real lovers out there
True love is priceless,you don't need to try so hard to please your significant half,it all comes naturally...
👍 to all the true lovers out there..keep on keeping it real,continue to support your special friend and cherish him/her. Never forget to always rekindle your love don't always wait for Val's day or birthdays to do that.
👍 to all the true lovers out there..keep on keeping it real,continue to support your special friend and cherish him/her. Never forget to always rekindle your love don't always wait for Val's day or birthdays to do that.
Finding True Love Can Be Difficult
The Bible has a remarkable story about a woman named Leah who discovered that finding true love was difficult. Leah was the daughter of a wealthy and manipulative man named Laban. Leah also had a sister named Rachel, one of the most beautiful women in the whole region. Leah, was described as, “weak in the eyes.” We do not know exactly what that phrase means, but it is not hard to guess. Even without the side-by-side comparison to her beautiful sister, Leah was not drawing much attention.
One day, Rachel was herding the sheep when a young man named Jacob came to the well. His journey's purpose was to find a wife, so it did not take him long to notice beautiful Rachel approaching. He rolled away the stone over the well, and watered the sheep for her. Learning he was her father's nephew, she ran home to tell Laban the news. Already head-over-heels in love, or call itlove-at-first-sight if you wish, Jacob stayed on with Laban. When asked what his wages should be, he immediately asked to marry Rachel. Laban made Jacob an offer. “Work for me, seven years without pay, then I will give you my daughter.”
It is starting to sound like a romantic story for the ages! Jacob was so madly in love that he did not hesitate. Seven years he worked, everyday focused on his prize. One day he would finally be able to marry the woman of his dreams, Rachel. The Bible records the event with all of the poetry we would expect from a great love story. “Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.”
After seven years of labor, the wedding day finally arrived. The party must have been massive. When night came, Jacob and his new bride, probably wearing her wedding veil, went into their tent.
The next morning Jacob awoke, the Bible says, “and behold it was Leah!” Jacob had been tricked. Laban had switched his daughters on the wedding night and tricked Jacob into marrying his oldest, Leah. Why? Laban wanted another seven years of free labor before he would allow Jacob to actually marry Rachel. Still madly in love with Rachel, Jacob agrees and works another seven years to marry this younger daughter.
We like the image of Jacob! He was willing to submit himself to over a decade of manual labor as an act of love for Rachel whom he considered to be his soulmate. Like a great Shakespearian tragedy, we want desperately to find that kind of love, too. We want to know that someone would make such a sacrifice for us. This expression of love is the deepest craving of our heart. But allowing ourselves to be quickly carried off in the ecstasy of the moment misses the real heart of the story for Leah.
Leah had never been able to draw much attention. She had always been the hopeless romantic. But now things were much worse. Leah was married to a man who never for a moment loved her, and manipulated by a father as payment for help around the farm. Leah was not loved by her husband, nor even her father. She was used and discarded. When she was most vulnerable she was rejected.
What happened next is subtle, but important for us to understand our own struggle with love and rejection. In Leah’s first century world, women cared deeply about building a family, especially having sons, to which they could pass on their family name. A father’s proudest moment was the birth of his first son. Soon after being married, Jacob wanted a son. Leah saw an opportunity! If she could be the first to give Jacob a son, surely then he would love and appreciate her. Leah must have been excited to find out she was pregnant, and even more excited when she gave birth to the family’s first son, Reuben
Again she believed God had seen her rejection. Now, surely her husband would love her. But nothing changed. Leah had a third son, who she named Levi. She honestly hoped that now her husband would care for her and love her. But again, nothing changed.Leah believed in her heart that God had blessed her with this son so that now her husband would finally love her. But nothing changed. Leah gave birth to a second son, she named him Simeon.
Leah’s story teaches us that finding true love is difficult. True love goes beyond the passion of romance and even finding a partner for the sake of being married. While romance and having our needs met for provision and security are important, there is more that we must discover.
Monday, 17 October 2016
Perrie Edwards confirms Zayn Malik broke up their 2yr engagement via text
Singer Perrie Edward has confirmed that her ex-boyfriend Zayn Malik broke up with her via text message. Perrie who dated Zayn for four years and was engaged to him for two years, wrote in her band Little Mix‘s new book “Our World,”, that Zayn sent her a text ending their relationship,
"It was horrible, the worst time in my life. A four-year relationship, two year engagement ended by a simple text message. Just like that,” she wrote. “Even though things in my career were going really well, it was incredibly difficult for me.”
Meanwhile, the former One Direction singer in an interview for The Fader last November, denied the rumors that he had broken up with her by text.
“I love her a lot, and I always will, and I would never end our relationship over four years like that. She knows that, I know that, and the public should know that as well. I don’t want to explain why or what I did, I just want the public to know I didn’t do that,” he told the mag
Sunday, 16 October 2016
Van Vicker and wife celebrate 13th year wedding anniversary
Ghanaian actor who is prominent in Nollywood is celebrating his 13th wedding anniversary with his wife and mother of three children, Adjoa, today October 16th.
He shared this throwback photo from their wedding with the caption:
‘13 years and counting...what more can I say? #MyLife#MySuccessStory #Marriage #vanvicker’
I’m too busy to have a girlfriend- Davido insists he’s single
Despite recent pictures of him with a girl rumoured to be his new love interest,Davido has disclosed that he is currently single and not in any relationship.
During an interview with BeatFm on Friday,the singer blamed his busy schedule for the reason he has no time for relationship.
He said in clear terms: “I don’t have a girlfriend.
"The only one that holds my hands & never let's me go" - Femi Fani-Kayode's wife praises him on his birthday today
Former Minister of Aviation, Femi Fani-Kayode is celebrating his birthday today, October 16th. His wife/mother of his son, Precious Chikwendu shared a message via social media praising him for being special, fearless and her solution maker.
She wrote:
"That special one, the only one that holds my hands and never let's me go, my teacher, my friend, my partner in debates and arguments, he who never lets me walk alone in my worries and thoughts, my solution maker, my personal doctor, ever kind and gentle, my entertainer with whom I find no dull moment even in the midst of tough times, Lotanna's superman, The fearless one and bravest . May your years be blessed, may joy never depart from your sight, you will continue to win no matter what is thrown at you because you truly are the beloved of the most high God and when your accusers are tired they will have no options than to swallow their words and rain blessings on you cause you are blessed of the Lord and he shall bless those who bless you and curse those who curse you. My prayer today and always is that he will take you to that height which he has promised,bless you with good health and wisdom , protect you from all shades of evil and never leave you. Happy birthday Honey
Thursday, 13 October 2016
Unbelievable! Two Lesbian Reverend Sisters Get Married To Each Other (See What The Pope Is Saying About It)
Two reverend sisters have shocked the world by getting married to each other prompting the Pope to react on the matter.
Two reverend sisters have gotten married to each other, a development which has caused a stir around the world.
Pope Francis has even reacted to the development.
According to him, he has been ‘saddened’ after he heard the two nuns had married each other in a secret civil ceremony in Italy, a Vatican official has revealed.
According to Daily Mail, the women, known as Sister Federica and Sister Isabel, tied the knot in Pinerolo, near Turin on September 28 after falling in love during a mission in West Africa.
They have since revealed they decided to follow their hearts after hearing the Pope’s comments on gay people in 2013 when he famously said: ‘Who am I to judge?’
But far from being happy about the union, Vatican Deputy Secretary of State Archbishop Angelo Becciu said the Pope, 79, was left visibly upset.
‘How much sadness on the pope’s face when I read him the news of the two married ‘nuns’!’ Becciu tweeted on Friday.
Daily Mail reports that during an interview with La Repubblica, Federica, 44, from Italy, and Isabel, 40, from South America, declared their love was a ‘gift from God’.
They said they did not want to just live together in a convent and keep their relationship under wraps as this would be ‘false’.
The couple revealed they decided to act on their feelings when Pope Francis encouraged those in the Catholic Church not to judge others.
During an interview in 2013, the religious leader said: ‘If a person is gay and seeks the Lord and has good will, well who am I to judge them?’
The two nuns said: ‘That phrase has opened our hearts.’
They took advantage of a law passed this year that offers homosexual couples legal recognition in Italy – one of the last countries in the West to do so.
Last week, Pope Francis said all transsexuals and homosexuals should be ‘welcomed’ and embraced by the Catholic Church.
He said Jesus would never have turned away transgender people and revealed he had ministered to homosexuals as a priest, bishop and now as Pope.
‘When a person arrives before Jesus, Jesus certainly will not say, ‘Go away because you are homosexual’,’ the religious leader said.
‘Each case must be welcomed, accompanied, studied, discerned and integrated. This is what Jesus would do today.’
“I got married at 22”-Kevin Hart reveals why his first marriage failed
Kevin Hart has admitted that he was to blame for the failure of his first marriage to Torrei Hart. The comedian told talk show host Chelsea Handler on her show, Chelsea, which aired on Monday.
I got married at the age of 22. I was still all over the place,’
‘I didn’t really understand the definition of marriage. I wasn’t ready for it, so I take responsibility. I can say I messed my first marriage up. I’m man enough to say that.’
Ever the funnyman, he couldn’t resist joking: ‘At the same time, that was when I was in the prime of my sexy, so don’t blame me. That’s when I was figuring it out.’
I will say that me and my ex-wife, regardless of the problems we went through, are in an amazing place now where we’re friends, we’re great parents,’
On getting married again, he said
To make this big step, it took me some time,’ he told Chelsea of Eniko. ‘It took seven years. And then I was like, “You know what? She deserves it,” because I can’t keep just letting this walk around free,’ he joked gesturing to his body.
‘That’s not fair to her. I got to lock this up.’
Tuesday, 11 October 2016
Newlywed allows guests to molest her in order to raise money for honeymoon (photos)
Chinese newlywed allegedly permitted male guests at her wedding ceremony to manhandle her in other to raise money for her honeymoon. In a bizarre footage, which was reportedly captured in northern China, several men could be seen paying to fondle the bride with their hands placed on her boobs, while others were also seen pulling down her wedding dress.
OMG...You will not believe what this bride did to her groom during their honeymoon
Terrified SA bride bashes her husband's head with a wine bottle after seeing his manhood for the first time during honeymoon
In South Africa, a virgin bride reportedly bashed her husband on the head during their honeymoon, after seeing his large penis for the first time.
According to reports, Mnombo Madyibi (pictured above) – nicknamed Anaconda by his friends, was attacked while trying to get intimate with his wife on their honeymoon after they both decided to abstain from sex until marriage.
The unnamed wife reportedly described her husband's penis as a 'hairy, scary cucumber' after seeing it for the first time. Revealing what happened, Madyibi said:
'All was well and she enjoyed the foreplay. But all hell broke loose the moment I took off my underwear.'
She reacted in horror, bit his ear and squeezed his private parts.
'Before I knew it, she knocked me over with a bottle of wine before attempting to suffocate me with a red and white teddy bear I'd bought her as a gift.'
The screams woke up other guests at their bed an breakfast in Coffee Bay, South Africa, and the pair ended up heading back home.
While Madyibi thinks his wife was angry because he could only afford a cheaper honeymoon instead of the one she wished for in Zanzibar, his wife when contacted said she only slapped him on the cheek. They have decided to use marriage counseling instead of involving the police to solve their issues.
Source:Linda ikeji's blog
In South Africa, a virgin bride reportedly bashed her husband on the head during their honeymoon, after seeing his large penis for the first time.
According to reports, Mnombo Madyibi (pictured above) – nicknamed Anaconda by his friends, was attacked while trying to get intimate with his wife on their honeymoon after they both decided to abstain from sex until marriage.
The unnamed wife reportedly described her husband's penis as a 'hairy, scary cucumber' after seeing it for the first time. Revealing what happened, Madyibi said:
'All was well and she enjoyed the foreplay. But all hell broke loose the moment I took off my underwear.'
She reacted in horror, bit his ear and squeezed his private parts.
'Before I knew it, she knocked me over with a bottle of wine before attempting to suffocate me with a red and white teddy bear I'd bought her as a gift.'
The screams woke up other guests at their bed an breakfast in Coffee Bay, South Africa, and the pair ended up heading back home.
While Madyibi thinks his wife was angry because he could only afford a cheaper honeymoon instead of the one she wished for in Zanzibar, his wife when contacted said she only slapped him on the cheek. They have decided to use marriage counseling instead of involving the police to solve their issues.
Source:Linda ikeji's blog
Monday, 10 October 2016
Dolapo Oni-Sijuwade & husband, Prince Adegbite celebrate their 1st wedding anniversary
Media personality, Dolapo Oni-Sijuwade and her husband, Prince Adegbite Sijuwade are celebrating their first wedding anniversary today October 10, 2016.
Celebrating their love, Marcy wrote:
"I thank God for bringing us together. He picked the perfect partner for me. You are truly special Gbite. Thank you for your love, your warmth, your charm, your small craze 😜 But most importantly thank you for filling our home with laughter. God bless you and keep you. God bless our marriage. Happy first anniversary baby. Looking forward to forever with you ❤️ #anniversary
7 Things Women Should Stop Doing On Dates
As first impressions are important, so are first dates.
First dates are like the covers of the books and don’t hit me with that don’t judge a book by its cover because nobody really wants to go through the entire book on the first date. And so it’s very important to know what to do and what not do especially if you seek to have a second date.
We may have the answers, though! I mean, that’s why we are here. For the purpose of this article, we got speaking to a few men, those in relationships and single men alike and so here’s a few things women should avoid doing on a first date.
1. No third wheelers please
Some people still don’t understand how offensive it is to bring a friend on a date and it shouldn’t be. Men, don’t try it. Even if you meet a friend at the date, don’t invite him over. It’s wrong and won’t allow for communication between both parties, which the date is supposed to do.
2. No phones allowed
No phones at dates, because it’s rude. What this means is forget the world, forget your twitter fam, forget to Instagram that food really. It’s the first date and it won’t kill you if you don’t post this one food okay? Very good.
3. Don’t overdrink or overeat
Know your portion ladies, and don’t overdrink or overeat. Take everything moderately, especially if you’re not willing to pay for the meal afterwards. That okay? Fine.
4. Dress conservatively
While the subject of dressing is very touchy, it is neccesary to be dressed conservatively. Goes a long way.
5. Don’t think it’ll end in sex
Men need to understand that not all first dates end in sex and as thus, remove all the thoughts from your head. Every damn thing. It’ll make the date go fine and would lead to the probability of a second date.
6. Oversharing
It’s the first date, so stick to basic essentials. Don’t slip through everything and well, end up saying some very weird things.
7. Don’t be pretentious
A lot of men we spoke to complained about how women pretend a lot on first dates. Now, remember you shouldn’t over share but don’t be fake about the sides of you that you choose to share.
Source: omgvoice
First dates are like the covers of the books and don’t hit me with that don’t judge a book by its cover because nobody really wants to go through the entire book on the first date. And so it’s very important to know what to do and what not do especially if you seek to have a second date.
We may have the answers, though! I mean, that’s why we are here. For the purpose of this article, we got speaking to a few men, those in relationships and single men alike and so here’s a few things women should avoid doing on a first date.
1. No third wheelers please
Some people still don’t understand how offensive it is to bring a friend on a date and it shouldn’t be. Men, don’t try it. Even if you meet a friend at the date, don’t invite him over. It’s wrong and won’t allow for communication between both parties, which the date is supposed to do.
2. No phones allowed
No phones at dates, because it’s rude. What this means is forget the world, forget your twitter fam, forget to Instagram that food really. It’s the first date and it won’t kill you if you don’t post this one food okay? Very good.
3. Don’t overdrink or overeat
Know your portion ladies, and don’t overdrink or overeat. Take everything moderately, especially if you’re not willing to pay for the meal afterwards. That okay? Fine.
4. Dress conservatively
While the subject of dressing is very touchy, it is neccesary to be dressed conservatively. Goes a long way.
5. Don’t think it’ll end in sex
Men need to understand that not all first dates end in sex and as thus, remove all the thoughts from your head. Every damn thing. It’ll make the date go fine and would lead to the probability of a second date.
6. Oversharing
It’s the first date, so stick to basic essentials. Don’t slip through everything and well, end up saying some very weird things.
7. Don’t be pretentious
A lot of men we spoke to complained about how women pretend a lot on first dates. Now, remember you shouldn’t over share but don’t be fake about the sides of you that you choose to share.
Source: omgvoice
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