13 signs that your relationship is heading for a spilt.

What are the signs that your relationship is in major trouble?
Below is a list of some of the things to look out for (though I'd rather you look at them as signs that your marriage or relationship is in need of intensive care) - and they count for either one of you:
1. Your communication level reduces by the day, You are not talking much about personal ‘stuff’ - you have little idea what is going on in your partner's life.

2. When your patner refuses to change a bad habit and You're complaining about the same things over and over again.

3. You can't come to an understanding or agreement over important issues (if you're still at this stage - you have to find out where the problem is from)

4. You end up feeling frustrated, angry and hurt, whenever you try to talk about them

5. You're feeling increasingly depressed - if you both feel like this on account of your relationship then your feelings are definite warnings signs of a break up

6. You're becoming increasingly irritable and/or withdrawn.

7. You're unhappy and may have even mentioned or threatened your partner with separation.

8. You're going out more frequently or staying longer at work and you're increasingly leading separate lives

9. At least one of you is having an affair,this means the level of love and respect you had for your partner has reduced and you feel you need someone new.

10. You're acting ‘out of character’, or perhaps you have 'not been yourself' lately,you always have mood swings when your with your lover and you become very cranky.

11. You're arguing more frequently as a couple and perhaps even treating each other with contempt

12. You are 'stonewalling' - ignoring your partner when you're miffed, pretending that he or she doesn't exist (wow, what a bad habit!)

13. You're inconsistent - you make promises about being there and then make yourself scarce