Seyi Law and wife welcome first child after five years of marriage

So happy for them. Pray for my readers that are asking God for the fruit of the womb, that God will bless your wombs and make it fertile... IJN

First Dance Songs That You Should Add To Your Wedding Playlist

Weddings are really one of our favourite things.
Asides the fact that there’s free food, we enjoy seeing people in love and all watch them when they take their first dance. Always a beautiful feeling. One thing about the first dance is that it is so intimate and happy, that it is not possible to be happy for the couple at that point.
Here are a few songs
1. Iyawo Mi – Timi Dakolo
2. Olo Mi – Tosin Martins
3. Wedding Day – 9ice
4. No One Be Like You – PSquare
5. Oruka – Sunny Nneji
6. Ololufe – Wande Coal
7. Obi Mu O – Obiwon
8. Obimo – Kayswitch
9. Ololufe – Orlando Julius
10. Ife Wa Gbona – Tiwa Savage
11. Aye – Davido
12. Love My Baby – Wizkid
13. Femi – Mosa
14. Fine Lady – Lynxxx
15. African Queen – 2Face
16. Fall in Love – D’banj
17. Aduke – Tjan
18. Sade – Adekunle Gold
19. Ada Ada – Flavour
With that being said, what Nigerian songs do you want to have your first dance to?

Steps To Impress Your Future Mother-In-Law In The Very First Meeting

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 Now it is time for the second round– meeting the future in-laws. Especially, your would-be mother-in-law!
You must be excited yet nervous, of course. And your mind must be circling around things you should and should not talk about when you meet her, right? Well if all this is going on in your mind right now, then you are at the right place. Here we have the answer to your question. We have mentioned a few points that will help you to get ready for your first big meeting with your future mother-in-law. So, want to know what are they? Then read on.
Don’t give false impressions
Yes, this is the first and the foremost rule of meeting your future in-laws. Don’t try to impress your would-be mother-in-law by saying things like, “Oh! Yes I love cooking”, when you just don’t like it or don’t even know how to cook! Topics like cooking, household chores, career, work hours, etc. are common subjects where most girls end-up giving a false impression, either in their attempts to impress or out of nervousness. Always remember, a false impression can create lot of problems later on.
Don’t belittle her son
You have met the man of your dreams (love marriage or arranged), and you have instantly connected with him. But there are few things or let us say habits of his that you don’t like. Whatever it is, don’t start the conversation with, “Your son has so and so bad habits,” or “I think he smokes too much, maybe you should have done something to stop him,” or anything which raises question on her upbringing. Trust us, no mother would like to hear about her upbringing from some person she is meeting for the first time. You will definitely feel her wrath.
Don’t get into intimate details
If it is a love marriage, then please resist from sharing the intimate details of your relationship. Telling her how your son swept you off your feet, literally, is something any mother would not be pleased to hear. So, keep such information strictly in between you and your man.
Source: talkofnaija

Khloe Kardashian tells instances where lying in a relationship is allowed

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Khloe Kardashian believes in honesty in relationships except when the truth ‘could really hurt someone you’re dating.’She took to her website to dole out advice on when one is allowed to lie in relationships.
‘Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to relationships,’ ‘But there are some scenarios when telling the truth could really hurt someone you’re dating.’These are my rules for whether or not you should tell a white lie to your man.’
In regards to questions on How Many People You’ve Slept With, Khloe said
‘I don’t ask this question but I would expect him to tell me if I’m in a room with someone he used to hook up with…
‘I’m not going to lie about this one, I just don’t think it’s a necessary conversation.’
And If You’ve Hooked Up With One Of His Friends, she warned:
‘Say something! That’s definitely going to come out!!’
Khloe does admit that one can lie a little to spare someone’s feelings regarding something like his outfit.
‘I’m very honest but it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it,’ Khloe cautioned.
If You Can’t Stand His Mom:
‘Maybe at first grin and bear it, but if you guys are married you don’t need to lie about it… But at first, you gotta lie!

They say that Angelina Jolie used to 'beat' Brad - & stayed in 'their own wings' at their mansion estate while their marriage fell apart

According to InTouch mag, Angelina Jolie used to put hands on Brad Pitt and they are describing her as a wife from hell. Na wa! As if they were in their relationship. Read the rest after the cut...
From Daily Mail
Us Weekly claims that while Brad, 52, and Angelina, 41, were living together at their huge Hollywood Hills compound, they took to staying in different parts of the 80,000 sq ft estate.
"Angelina basically had her own wing and he had his,' a source close to Brad told the publication. 'They began living these separate lives.'
A representative for Brad declined to comment when contacted by DailyMail.com. A representative for Angelina was did not immediately respond to requests for comment.
The insider also revealed that the former couple. who share six children, were fighting more and more ahead of the break-up.
'Their arguments progressively became more frequent,' the source said.
Brad allegedly 'didn't want to be alone' and turned to friends while working on his latest movie Allied to discuss his problems.
'He said he was just worn out and fed up with problems at home,' an insider claimed. 'He said they’ve had rocky moments before, but this is the roughest patch they’d ever been through.'
A source close to Angelina alleged that she wasn't happy with Brad airing their dirty laundry, telling Us Weekly: 'She cannot deal with anyone talking about their business.'
The couple's estate - which will be divided with their other properties as they hash out a $400million divorce agreement after signing a prenup - is made up of five houses and features a skate park, three swimming pools and a secret cave.
Ian Halperin, author of Brangelina: The Untold Story of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, recently said that Angelina is considering relocating to the UK to further her political career.
'She’s a woman with an agenda, she wants to leave the United States, she wants to work in the UK, she wants to get in the House of Lords, she has a non-profit foundation there. She has her sights set on England,' he told the Daily Star.
And while she will indeed be spending more time in the British capital, particularly as she has been appointed a visiting professor at the London School of Economics, a source told People
that Angelina is not making a move their full time.

Wow...Photos: Nigerian bride-to-be rocks huge gele for her pre-wedding shoot

A Pre-Wedding shoot captures the love-chemistry of a couple before the actual wedding. After the wedding, familiarity grows and the Love chemistry changes its colours. Obviously, the couple grows more intimate. However, before the wedding, they share a different chemistry. Its more lovey-dovey and they feel and savor each other’s touch and glances more, almost like teenagers. They are raring to explore each other and are very enthusiastic. A Pre-Wedding shoot captures those special feelings and emotions, which will soon be replaced by deeper intimacy and greater acquaintance. Today, Pre Wedding Couple shoot has become almost a mandatory ritual for many couples. Couples scout for locations, and themes for their shoot and want to make it one of the most special events of their wedding. Some couples want to recreate the scene of their courtship days. So they take their photographer to their favourite places, places where they have been on dates with each other or proposed to each other. Some couples want to get their first love letter photographed and preserved for the rest of their life. Some couples simply leave it on the photographer to unleash his creativity and capture their love in a candid way. Pre-Wedding shoots are most often require the couple to pose and each shot has to be pre-conceived, planned, and staged.

For her pre-wedding shoot, this Nigerian bride-to-be Temi rocked a huge gele. Acclaimed textile designer Nike Davies-Okudaye of Nike Art Gallery styled the couple.

Angelina Jolie 'BLOCKS' Brad Pitt's mobile phone numbers after he 'bombards her with texts and calls'

Things are going from bad to worse for the Jolie-Pitts as communication between the pair looks to have completely broken down.
Angelina Jolie appears to be standing strong and is unwilling to reconcile with her estranged husband at the moment. According to reports she has blocked all of Brad Pitt's phone numbers.
 The Maleficent star is said to have chosen to ignore any contact from her estranged husband after she filed for divorce from him earlier this week.
   A source told Us Weekly magazine: "Angelina has blocked all incoming text messages and also Brad’s numbers."
Meanwhile, it was previously claimed that the 52-year-old actor has been left "completely devastated" by his divorce.
An insider shared: "He is beside himself and has been crying. He was completely caught off guard and blindsided and had no idea she would do this.
"Angelina filed the court papers a minute before the courts closed on Monday night. He didn’t have a lawyer or anything. She had threatened divorce in the past but he did not think she would file this time.
"He is completely devastated and beside himself. He is a shattered man. He’s extremely upset. But he is totally focused on just being helpful and making sure his kids are doing as well as possible."
And Brad is reportedly disappointed their split had to "play out publicly".
A pal added: "He is emotionally torn. Right now, he is devastated. He still loved Angelina and would have preferred they fight to make the marriage work.
"He was willing to do whatever it took to save the marriage and didn't know Angelina had already given up on it. He has wanted to protect the children. He didn't want it to play out publicly."
   Angelina filed for divorce from Brad on Monday 19 September citing "irreconcilable differences".
The By The Sea actress is seeking joint legal custody but sole physical custody of their six children, Maddox, 15, Pax, 12, Zahara, 11, Shiloh, 10, and eight-year-old twins Knox and Vivienne.

Check out the advice Nnamdi Oboli gives on martial afairs

Nnamdi Oboli , the husband of Nollywood actress cum producer, Omoni Oboli on Saturday shared some marital advice via his Instagram handle.
Oboli, who is the author of the book,
“Marriage For Better For Us” , in his poetic piece titled “Its’s All Up To You” , said:
Today, it’s anger towards the husband for putting up the toilet sit
But a little stretch of the hand to put it down would stop the dissension brewing in hell’s pit
The toothpaste tube conversation stretches through, to usurp valuable quality time
But a little shutting of the mouth would have stopped the irretrievable hateful words like the mouth that has just tasted bitter lime
The love we profess to one another suffers under the tyranny of our quest for selfish dominance
But the nurture and realization of our professed love must always be given the utmost importance
The individuality of each of the couple must lose its meaning from what it was before marriage
But not entirely at the expense of losing your valuable attributes that once were the attraction, thereby suppressing unexpressed rage.
Marriage is not a do or die affair, so don’t go into it hurriedly just because
But marriage is a do or die affair that couples must fight for within godly reason to achieve a worthy cause
Many people hurriedly open their mouths to aggravate situations which often only serve to entertain a third party’s musings
But learn to control and guard your God-given territory, knowing that love covers a multitude of sins
It may seem like a simple advice cannot solve the complicated web of problems we’ve wielded for ourselves
But complications are our way of displaying our prideful ways to God so that mankind can feel they have total control of themselves.

```EMOTIONAL LETTER TO All Of YOU...```

This was sent to me on whatsapp ....after reading it all I could say was WOW!!!!...Read up guys

🚏 _TO THE MARRIED..._

Congratulations, I cherish your togetherness.
Meanwhile, remember, love is not about "it's your fault", but all about "I'm sorry". Love is not about "where are you", but all about "I'm right here". Love is not about "how could you", but all about "I understand". Love is not about "I wish you were", but all about "I'm thankful you are."

🚏 _TO THE ENGAGED..._

Congatulations too as you have resolved together to go into this perpetual emotional journey. But remember, the true measure of
compatibility is not the years spent together, but how good you are for each other. Try as much as possible to work it out, it's one of the best feeling in life. It's worth it.

🚏 _TO THE NOT-SO-SINGLE..._

Doing emotional "interview" by having numerous partners in order to pick the most "qualified candidate" does not work most times. Stick with someone your heart and soul yearn for, not the one your eyes search for. Love is not about becoming someone else's "perfect person.", it is about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

🚏 _TO THE "I'M-IN-LOVE"..._

I will say kudos to you too. But remember love sometimes is not all about happiness, but
sacrificing your happiness for someone else's weaknesses. Also have it in mind that it won't be smooth sailing just like the day you both agreed to go into a relationship, so be prepared to make symbiotic sacrifices for that altimate goal - marriage. Also be warned to reduce online "advertisement" of your "boo", most times it's detrimental, if things didn't go as planned and as thought, you will be the hardest hit and you might even be converted to a "case study". Activating "in a relationship", "engaged" and "being toasted" button on Facebook might generate little comments and "likes", but will
affect you more if you change the button in the future again to "Single". Learn to keep important things in your life secret until they are obvious to others, wait till after marriage, then you can convert your facebook page to a photo album, but until then, wait!

🚏 _TO THE SINGLES...._

Love is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just patiently
wait, it will come to you when you least expected it. Love will give you the best in life and glow your spirit only when you give it to someone who is really worth it and can reciprocate it. So take your time and choose wisely.

🚏 _TO THOSE SEARCHING..._

To my "course-mates" well done. I know you are searching for your soul mate, if I get you right,
that means someone who thinks, behaves, dresses, eats, drinks, sleeps, dances, walks, reads, feels and likes all the same things as you right? Well, it might work in a Nollywood or a Hollywood movie, but in reality it's not possible. And besides, its not a healthy type of relationship, you know why? It will grow out of unresolved insecurities. When your partner's
thoughts, feelings and behaviours mirror your own, you're validated by the illusion of sameness and it's a way of avoiding uncertainty within the relationship. Eventually, when there is a difference of opinion, you feel threatened and invalidated. Before you know it, you will begin to doubt the relationship, and may even think your partner is a fake. Aunty/Brother, don't kill off your relationship by expecting your partner to think, feel and behave the same way you do, instead, celebrate the differences and make yourself open to diversity. When you do that, your relationship can become an exciting journey of growth and self-discovery.

🚏 _TO THE HEARTBROKEN..._

Hmmmmmn. According to my friend, nothing last forever, not even aboki's perfume.
Heartbreaks last as long as you want it, and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge
is not how to survive heartbreaks, but how to learn from them. Though most times, it's difficult to let go, but what will be will be; if you are meant to be together he/she will surely come back, but if not, there's nothing you can do. Move on.

🚏 _TO THE NAIVE..._

Yes. You keep reading love stories, watching love movies and listening to love songs. But know one thing, most of the authors of love
books are either divorced, or having issues with their unions, most of the singers of love songs
are not even in relationships, and most of the actors and actresses in love movies don't even
believe in love because they have either not experienced it or have been "dealt with" in the
past. Therefore don't believe all you read, listen to or watch. Take my simple advice; fall in love
but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to be too demanding, get hurt, but never keep the pain.

🚏 _TO THE POSSESSIVE..._

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else, but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you. Don't be too attached. Don't give your happiness to your lover, give yourself much joy, your happiness should not be dependent on your partner. The phrases and statements like "She is the joy of my life", "He is the reason why I'm breathing", "Without her I'm worthless", "He is my world" etc are not practical. Nobody can give you a better joy than the one you create for yourself. Nobody is your world, you are your own world. Yes, love increases your happiness,
but the key to your happiness and joy is in your hands. Don't hold love too tight, it might get choked.

🚏 _TO THOSE AFRAID TO PROFESS AND CONFESS LOVE..._

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel. Tell him/her how you feel, he/she might just be waiting for
you to talk. Nothing stops a woman from approaching the man she loves. The world has gone beyond "rural" emotion. If you love me, tell
me.

🚏 _TO THE CHEATS..._

Behind every untrusting girl is a boy who lied, cheated and broke his promises to her. Behind every untrusting guy is a girl who toiled with his heart. I'm not encouraging infidelity, but don't let us be too quick to judge; if witches were given time to explain why they did what they did, some of them might be right (a proverb in Okene). But one thing the cheats need to know too is that, they are not doing anyone any harm but themselves.

🚏 _TO THOSE CHANGING PARTNERS..._

Sometimes within you, you feel justified by changing partners like clothes just because of
few amendable "sins" that you too cannot even exonerate yourself from, I plead with you to have second thought. You may think you are still young and beautiful, but think about it, if you keep changing courses in a higher institution; sometimes after a year studying a course, sometimes you have spent like 4 semesters, sometimes you are almost through before you "realise" that the course is "boring", tell me, when will you graduate? When will you even master the discipline? Relationships are not meant to be projects, if you are spending all your time repairing, fixing, upgrading and changing, please have a second thought. Besides, you are not getting younger, every minutes of your life counts.

🚏 _TO THOSE AFRAID TO INVEST IN LOVE..._

Just like business, love itself needs investment before it can grow. All the hype about "She no want Designer", "She no want Ferrarri" stuff are pure slogans. The female species that doesn't want money and good things of life left the
surface of the earth around 1340BC, so if any man is looking for females that doesn't want
anything but love will need to consult archeologists. Both males and females are gold diggers, the different is that some of us are heavy diggers, some of us are lazy diggers, some of us are occasional diggers while some of us are simple diggers, but we all dig! Love
without "financial empowerment" no matter how little will shrink with time. So please invest in your partner and you will reap the reward of your investment. Love alone is not enough, add money to it and see a better result.

🚏 _TO ALL MY FRIENDS..._

My wish for you is a man/woman whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-ending, never-changing, ever-upgrading, uplifting, protective,encouraging, rewarding and unselfish. If I'
m missing anything?
Fill the gap

Bye Bye Brangelina: Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt are Getting a Divorce

One of Hollywood’s power couples,
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie will be parting ways after two years of marriage.
Angelina Jolie has cited irreconcilable differences as the reason for their separation and filed for physical custody of the couple’s six children.
The duo secretly got married in 2014 at their Chateau Miraval in France after meeting on the set of 2004 movie, Mr & Mrs Smith .
Brad Pitt divorced his former wife, actress Jennifer Aniston, in 2005 while this would be Angelina Jolie’s third failed marriage after her previous marriages with Jonny Lee Miller in 1996 and Billy Bob Thornton in 2000.

Furious Chinese wife beats the daylight out of husband's mistress (Photos/Video)

Video posted to Chinese video sharing site, Miaopai, shows a scorned Chinese wife dishing out a sound beating to her husband's mistress while the unfortunate woman cries and cowers. The husband even tried to break up the one-sided fight but nothing was going to come in between his wife's wrath and his mistress. At a point the furious wife even attempts to strip the mistress and succeeds in revealing her underwear before a policeman appeared to break up the scene. See photos and the video.

Stephanie Okereke Linus and husband stare lovingly at each other as they attend movie premier

Okereke was married (2004-2007) to a former Super Eagles football player Chikelue Iloenyosi, a marriage which a high court in Lagos in 2012 has declared null and void, because at the time they got married, Chikelue was already legally married to another woman in the US.

In April 2005, on her way to the African Movie Academy Awards held in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State, Nigeria, Okereke was involved in a serious car accident that left her with burns all over and a broken leg. She recovered speedily from the accident and went back to acting.

In April 2012 Okereke married Linus Idahosa in Paris, France, at a private wedding ceremony that was attended by members of her family and scores of Nollywoodactresses and actors.^[1 Their first son Maxwell Enosata Linus was born in October 2015.

First photos from Simi Esiri's sister's white wedding

 The white wedding of Jimi Adesanya of Goldman Sachs/JM Films to Dr Sid's wife, Simi Osomo Esiri's younger sister, Titi Osomo heldo today. Happy married life to them.

Funke Akindele’s Union Will Not Last” – JJC’ Alleged Lover

It appears someone is not happy with the new status of Nollywood actress, Funke Akindele-Bello and her husband Abdul Rasheed Bello popularly known as, JJC Skillz.
After staging a secret wedding on Tuesday, August 23, in London, a lady who claims to be JJC Skillz secret lover showed up revealing that, the music star is only getting married to Funke Akindele because of her money, adding that she is the only true love of the music star.
According to Gistmania, a young lady who identified herself as Simbiat has come after newly married Nollywood actress Funke Akindele for using money to lure her man. The light skinned socialite allegedly promises friends that Funke’s new union can’t last more than 8 months because she is the only genuine lover of Rasheed Bello aka JJC Skillz.

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How do I avoid materialistic women?

What's the best way of finding normal women?

You can start by not flaunting your financial status.  If you show a great interest in high-end products, designer brands, trendy restaurants, pricey alcoholic potions and the like, you're going to be an obvious target for women who are of the same bent...materialistic.  Dress down (not dirty or unkempt, but casually and without the high-end designer labels) and try hanging out in places where "normal" women are likely to go.  If you want non-materialistic types, they tend to hover around non-profit organizations, schools, academic organizations, and other places where money is not the bottom line.  You don't mention your age, but older women tend to be more financially independent and less materialistic in their view of male partners.

Chai,this is really bad. See what happened to this chinese man.

Chinese man is publicly turned down by his love interest after staging elaborate proposal
A mam in China staged a public proposal for his best friend, Mumu, using a great number of her favorite fruit. He laid out 999 pomelos in the shape of a heart, the fruits are a bit larger than grapes and in Mandarin, the word pomelo means "you". He even accompanied it with a one man show and a bunch of flowers singing:
“She is my idol. She likes eating pomelos, so I’ve bought a lot of them for my proposal.” But Mumu rejected him.
“I don’t like you", she allegedly told the lovestruck fellow. I have been treating you as my best friend. But I’ll keep the pomelos.”
To make matters worse, Mumu told local press that bystanders who'd witnessed the fruity exchange then proceeded to help themselves to the pomelos.
Chai!!, this one na strong tin oo.
More photos after the cut...

Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston Have Parted Ways After 3 Months of Romance

For some still unknown reason, it has been reported that American pop singer Taylor Swift and her actor boyfriend, Tom Hiddleston have broken up.
According to People , the pop star and Tom may not be ever getting back together after a three-month relationship.
The seemingly inseparable “Hiddleswift” began to date in June after Taylor’s separation from famous DJ Calvin Harris.
The breakup has been said to be amicable, and that public fascination with the couple may have contributed to it, according to Us Weekly .

Jaden Smith pictured necking his girlfriend in public

The 18 year old actor and rapper was pictured necking his girlfriend, Sarah Snyder, near a grocery store in Los Angeles over the weekend.

You never know where you'll met your soulmate.

Be kind to people, even if there are rude to you just overlook it and make that first impression memorable .

Why married men sleep with their maids -Bishop Charles Ighile

 Bishop Charles Ighile his wife, Rev. Caro Ighile have given an insight on why men sleep with their maids under their wives noses. The couple who head The Holy Spirit Mission Church (The Happy Family Chapel) with over sixty branches,spoke during their dating and relationships syndicated program on why many marriages crash.

Read excerpts below:

“Men sleep with their househelps when the couple are not on their guards. We are talking about God-fearing men here, who would not ordinarily sleep with their househelps, but somehow find themselves doing it.

There is always a division of labour in the home. As the Bible puts it, the man is the head of the home and the woman is the helper. She is the keeper at home. Therefore, according to the Bible, everything about the domestic affairs is for the woman. From what God Himself told Haggai in the Bible when her househelp ran away, God asked her, “why are you running away from your mistress…Go and submit yourself to her.”

Therefore, the househelp is under the woman. She submits to the woman. When a maid needs to buy things such as undies, body cream, make her hair or she has to report to the man when she is seeing her period, then there is going to be problem.

When it is the man now asking the girl, ‘what’s wrong with you?’, why are you sad? Do you have tummy ache? Ok, come and see me in the room’ etc. There is fire on the mountain. There are certain boundaries that must be set in the home. When the woman fails to take charge of her responsibilities and passes them to the house help and the husband takes them up. She is setting up the husband for temptation.”

The cleric also insisted that inappropriate dressing in and around the home also plays a major role in seduction of the man in breaking the family.

“Appropriate must be enforced in the home. A man is enticed by what he sees, therefore, the woman must not allow the househelp to dress indecently in such a way that all her contours are revealed and everything is dangling around the house because the man may be tempted even when he didn’t plan it.

So the couple must have rules in the house, as you cannot just come into the kitchen or sitting room with only your nighties on or tie a towel or wrapper around your waist moving around the house. Those are troubles for the man. He should not say, ‘oh, she is only 14, there is nothing she can do’.

“No, she is a woman and the man seeing her unclothedness could be thrown off balance. Sometimes, the househelp themselves could be cunning. She wants to seduce the man. So, a man must be very careful.

“Then, the man must show his wife love all the time. The housegirl must not be allowed to see cracks in their marriage. The husband must not disrespect his wife anytime, especially in the presence of the girl, such as shouting on the wife and so on. Doing that will make the girl lose respect for the woman.

“These are just a few of the very many reasons men sleep with their househelps. If you as the man begins to find yourself attracted to the househelp, just send her away. If you are a man who wants to save your marriage and wants to honour your marriage and God, let your househelp go. I know that when a man begins to have feelings towards a woman, his defenses weaken, so the strength to even send her away is no where to be found. But struggle with your weakness to send her away. I have handled a case as that where the man has already slept with the househelp. Interestingly, the wife is by far more beautiful, but it’s not a matter of beauty now, it’s a matter of the more you live with somebody the more you see something that attracts you to the person which outsiders might not see.”

I cannot imagine my world without you my Love - Adaeze Yobo tells hubby, Joseph, was he turns a year older today

The proud mother of two and currently expecting the third one, took to her IG page to shower her hubby, Joseph Yobo, with some loving words as he turns a year older today September 6th.
She wrote;
"I cannot imagine my world without you my Love ❤ A father to many, A giver who never lacks. A man who knows where he came from and where he is going. I pray today that God will give you complete knowledge of his will and to give you spiritual wisdom and understanding.#happybirthdayChief

Check out Kylie, Tyga, Rob and Black Chyna's funny family tree

We all know Tyga is in a relationship with Kylie. He already has a three year old son with Black Chyna, Chyna now is pregnant for Kylie's brother, Rob Kardashian. The thing is, how would the family tree look if Tyga and Kylie were to have a kid together?
TMZ unravelled how things might look like, hypothetically., See their break down of the family the after the cut.
- Tyga and ex, Blac Chyna, spawned King Cairo ... he'll be half brother to Rob and Chyna's unborn kid. Tyga then becomes an uncle to Cairo's new half sibling ... by virtue of Rob and Kylie's sibling relationship.
- If Tyga and Kylie popped out a kid ... that'd give Cairo another half sibling ... Tyga and Kylie's hypothetical kid would be half cousins with Rob and Blac's kid.
- Rob would be Cairo's stepdad ... and an uncle to Tyga's and Kylie's kid -- with Blac as aunt to King Cairo's half sibling.
Very complicated and confusing...May God help them.

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You deserve THIS relationship ❤️
#truelove #love

Here’s what I’ve learned (so far). And what I now tell every woman who wants a real relationship too.

1. Grow during dark times.

You’re not the same person you were yesterday, let alone six months ago. You know you’ll change (and that’s all groovy), but you also know that you’ll grow together. Yet, the real test of a relationship is how you grow in dark times. Times that have you thinking it’s definitely over. Do you grow together, or do you grow apart?

2. Figure out how you fight.

Do you stonewall, get defensive, and throw personal jabs to cause pain? Or, do you say how you feel, listen to your partner’s feelings, and communicate what it is you really need? In other words, do you fight to hurt, or do you fight to grow?

3. Talk about money.

As uncomfortable as talking about money can be, discussing finances and learning how each of you views money is super important. Discuss your goals, dreams, and priorities and be open to having weekly or monthly meetings to see how things are lining up.

4. Communicate from your soul.

As a relationship continues, and you get more into the everyday type of stuff, you lose that soul-digging momentum you once had in the beginning where you want to pick each other’s brains and hearts. Bring some of that soul communication back on a daily basis, you’ll be amazed at what transforms. Try it!

Mide's Blog: Is Usain Bolt engaged to his long time girlfriend?...

Mide's Blog: Is Usain Bolt engaged to his long time girlfriend?...: The Jamaican sprint star who is currently on vacation with his model girlfriend have been relaxing on the South Pacific Island of Bora...

Is Usain Bolt engaged to his long time girlfriend?

The Jamaican sprint star who is currently on vacation with his model girlfriend have been relaxing on the South Pacific Island of Bora Bora. Usain Bolt took to his Snapchat to shares images of himself and Kasi, including the one above with the caption, 'She said yes' along with a heart and bride emoji. There's no rock in sight though.

Photos: Proof yet again that some lucky people can find their soulmates online

They were cyber friends for a year,until they met each other one on one and started dating.

Funke Akindele’s Mother refused to Attend Her Wedding To JJC Skillz...See why

Even if they don’t agree with you on the choice of man you choose to spend the rest of your life with, every woman wants to feel a little like a princess on her wedding day. If your family doesn’t turn up, it’s hard to pretend you’re a princess – and even harder to hide your humiliation. Believe me, their deliberate absence definitely tarnishes everything.

So, while Funke Akindele’s wedding to music star, Abdulrasheed Bello aka JJC Skillz , may have been a secret affair among the families, their union was definitely missing one magical ingredient: her mother’s blessing.

Reports have it that the wedding which was held on Thursday, August 24, in the UK had few family mémbers on hand. Though a few of the singer’s family members, including his daughter, were said to have been there, only Funke’s sister was present to stand-in as the family for her.
Funke’s mother apparently kept her distance due to her long-standing disapproval of Funke’s new relationship.
It was reported that Funke Akindele’s family and particularly her mother were strongly against her marriage to JJC Skillz, who, they believe has the same profile as that of Funke’s first husband,
Alhaji Kehinde Almaroof Oloyede .
Funke Akindele’s first husband, Alhaji Almaroof has several children from 3 – 4 women, just like her supposed current husband who is said to have three children from three women.
Who knows if the Akindeles were even invited. But no matter who snubbed who, I can tell you no one likes to feel disapproved of, particularly on the day when you should feel most special. The new Mrs Bello may have put a brave face on it, but beneath the immaculate make-up, I know she will still have been smarting.

Funke Akindele-bello Flashes Her Wedding Ring In New IG Photo

Happy for her

Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe, has revealed the secret ingredient to her successful marriage.

Mercy Aigbe attributes marriage success to God– Popular actress Mercy Aigbe has revealed the secret behind her successful marriage

– The mother in an interview stated sustainability of marriage is down to having a focus

– Aigbe who is in her second marriage is blessed with two kids

According to the beautiful mother of two, God and a powerful determination has been the reason why she has managed to sustain her marriage.

Aigbe, who is currently in her second marriage to Lanre Gentry in an interview published by Encomium News on Saturday, September 3, 2016, stated that her successful marriage is down to having a focus.

In her words “It has been cool and it’s been God all the way. Before I got into it, I had actually made up my mind that come what may, I was going to stay married.”

“Although, I won’t say there weren’t some challenges along the way, I am just being focused. And I have been praying about it and God has just been helping me. So, it’s been God all the way.”

We pray for many years for the couple.
Source: Naij.com

Nollywood actor Charles Ujomu found love on social media, Instagram and settles for her.

Tinsel actor Charles Ujomo and Betty
Actor and model, Charles Ujomu is engaged. Popularly known for his role in TV series Tinsel, Ujomu got hooked to his beau, Betty, the voice prompt lady for one of the telecommunication companies in Nigeria.

Charles Ujomo and Betty
The couple met on social media and after they got to know that they are signed to the same management, Rabbit Foot Entertainment, they took their friendship a step
Like a well-bred traditional guy, Charles sought the approval of Betty’s dad before going ahead with any marriage plans after dating her for two years.

Betty and her friends waiting for Charles Ujomo
Betty’s dad called her out and in the presence of Charles and her mom, told her Charles’s intentions.
He didn’t propose with diamond rings and all. He went the traditional routes and Betty said “Yes” on the spot.

OAP Lawal Eniola says yes to guy she met on okada

Media personality Lawal Eniola is set to marry a man she met on okada on her way to the mosque for Muslim fellowship.


The UNILAG FM on-air-personality (OAP) shares how her fiance, a man she started calling Dipo Alawiye trailed the okada she was on with another okada in 2011.

She wrote: “We met in April 2011 on the bike, funny right? I was on my way to the Muslim Fellowship that Sunday morning, my mum and neighbor skipped, out of anger I decided to take a bike, I was on the bike when I saw this face that looked extremely familiar on another bike, sighting me he looked shocked and waved at me casually , as a very respectful girl (don’t count on it lol) because he looked older than I am, I waved back and bent my head to greet him at the same time, two seconds after I forgot I saw anyone until my bike arrived at the fellowship and I saw his bike parked, “no wonder he looked familiar I thought, he’s a member here too “, while dragging Balance issues with my bike-man, he looked finished with his but was waiting.”


“So he said “Hi”, I looked at him thoroughly and said to myself, looks like this person wants to lose the brother I would willingly put behind whatever his name is…any way I said Hello and he said I called you yesterday you didn’t pick up, (I’ve not even met this human being, how did he get my number) I didn’t ask him how he got my number, I just simply told him I didn’t know him and zero chance I got his call.
He said he wanted to see me (what kind of devil is this, he wants to toast me right before I go to talk to my God), I don’t have time I snapped! That was it…until after a month after when I got his call again and he told me his name, and asked to see me again.”
“I agreed to see him at the fellowship, when egbon started his story, “Been watching you for over a year now, I think you’re different bla bla bla (I was dating someone else so I knew his story was just gonna be another cool one and he will end up getting a NO), however I wasn’t able to tell him my NO that day. .. Months passed, we stayed friends, (FYI I called him”bro Dipo” all that period, checked up on each other once in a while , never had the intention of dating him until he pulled a surprise stunt on me like 6 months after, gosh! I loved him that day, I remember how much I wanted to hug him after the surprise but my pride, ego everything didn’t allow me.”

That was how Bro Dipo became Dipo. Eniola continued her narration when she explained the surprise:
“The surprise was ‘he had been out of town, so he called me up that Saturday to check up on me, said he was still out of town and didn’t know when he would be back. Following day, Sunday in the middle of our fellowship service, I saw him…I was utterly surprised, happy and delighted to see him, that little gesture was a whole lot.
Few months after we started dating, September 2012 I guess… He eventually lost the “bro” title. Lol Two months ago, on my birthday (Sunday, 19th of June) he asked me to marry him. I’m glad I didn’t get to say NO to him when he asked me out in the first place. And I will say YES, over and over again. We don’t have a date yet, but we will be ringing our wedding bell real soon.”

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Stephanie Coker's Fiance David Aderinokun in Ex-Wife & Baby Mama drama

Stepahnie Cokers fiance David Aderinokun reportedly has an Ex-wife and a baby mama according to reports. Read the reports from the sources below

According to FashionUncutMedia; Olumide has a 5 year old daughter from his past relationship which ended in 2012/2013. His ex wife, Temidayo and daughter now live in the US. Stephanie Coker knows about his child and ex wife and is ready to forge ahead
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Temidayo and daughterAccording to SDK; Olumide has a son named Hector who was born in March this year in the states to a Nigerian mother with name Jecinta Powell from Imo state. The baby is allegedly currently in France being cared for by his grandma
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According to insiders,The mum ,a UNILAG graduate fell pregnant without Olumide's consent and because she wanted to quicken up the Ring process of the man she was in love with
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Olumide allegedly didn't want the child and allegedly asked for a termination but  She wasn't having any of it and went silent after asking her friends to plead with him on her behalf
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According to insiders ''The child was born in March this year and baby mama thought she would soon be wifed but Olumide's recent engagement has been a huge shock to all in her corner
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Olumide has allegedly refused to take responsibility because he allegedly bought the idea that she engineered the entire thing from the start. Insiders say that Jacinta somehow wished that things would get back to normal between her and Olumide and they would marry
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The two stories are different, but from the stories, he reportedly has an ex-wife with a child and another child with a baby mama

Stephanie Coker's Fiance David Aderinokun in Ex-Wife & Baby Mama drama

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Stepahnie Cokers fiance David Aderinokun reportedly has an Ex-wife and a baby mama according to reports. Read the reports from the sources below
.
According to FashionUncutMedia; Olumide has a 5 year old daughter from his past relationship which ended in 2012/2013. His ex wife, Temidayo and daughter now live in the US. Stephanie Coker knows about his child and ex wife and is ready to forge ahead
.
Temidayo and daughterAccording to SDK; Olumide has a son named Hector who was born in March this year in the states to a Nigerian mother with name Jecinta Powell from Imo state. The baby is allegedly currently in France being cared for by his grandma
.
According to insiders,The mum ,a UNILAG graduate fell pregnant without Olumide's consent and because she wanted to quicken up the Ring process of the man she was in love with
.
Olumide allegedly didn't want the child and allegedly asked for a termination but  She wasn't having any of it and went silent after asking her friends to plead with him on her behalf
.
According to insiders ''The child was born in March this year and baby mama thought she would soon be wifed but Olumide's recent engagement has been a huge shock to all in her corner
.
Olumide has allegedly refused to take responsibility because he allegedly bought the idea that she engineered the entire thing from the start. Insiders say that Jacinta somehow wished that things would get back to normal between her and Olumide and they would marry
.
The two stories are different, but from the stories, he reportedly has an ex-wife with a child and another child with a baby mama