Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

Whether too short, too tall,too skinny,too fat,too dark or fair,too old or young... Once true love exists, no matter what the world says its gonna be you guys against the world.

Beauty is subjective.  What one person loves, another loathes.

There are objective data that indicate certain elements of "beauty" may be common in some cases.  For instance, facial studies indicate that human responses to facial symmetries and self-similarities can be predicted in aggregate.  Musical interests are also studied, and the results show clusters of taste and approval.  However such studies necessarily are limited in scope; none attempts to quantify "beauty" per se, but only to describe aggregate human evaluations.  The individual responses remain subjective, variable, and unpredictable.

People decide what they like and what they do not.  We do not all decide the same way.  The choices vary among persons, across cultures, across times of life and times in history.  Individuals can always be found whose tastes are several sigma away from any mean.  So we say that "beauty" is not intrinsic to the beheld, but resides in the beholder.

WOW...YOU NEED TO SEE THIS

 People are really coming up with creative pre_wedding pictures.The pre-wedding pictures we keep seeing are totally dope; some in their simplicity will make your heart warm up with emotion and the others would dare you to make a difference and do something with yours too. It is more than beautiful seeing couples explore their artistic instinct along with the unrelenting photographers who sweat morning and night trying to capture the right moment.

Nigerian couples sure invest a lot when it comes to the pre-wedding photo session as they aim to capture beautiful moments they would continue to treasure for life. Some of these pre-wedding pictures are weird, yet aimed at being natural and unique. We know it is boring getting to copy and repeat other people’s styles when you could easily create yours. Thus we appreciate these couples who have not failed to wow us with these amazing pre-wedding pictures.

Question for my Ladies

Ineffective Ways of Dealing with a Jealous Partner

Most people handle an overly jealous partner in ways which makes the problem worse.

When a partner is jealous they often behave in ways that are controlling, manipulative, invasive and overly needy . When partners behave this way, the natural response is to pull back, withdraw, and reassert one’s autonomy and independence, which in turn usually involves some secrecy and deception

For instance, if a boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, calls ten times a day checking to see what you might be up to, the natural response is to avoid such calls, return them less frequently, and become secretive and evasive when answering such questions.

Again, it's normal to try to hide things from partners who are overly inquisitive or who deal poorly to the truth 

The problem with using secrecy and withdrawal to deal with a jealous partner is that such responses only create more anxiety on the part of the individual who is already suspicious and jealous. As a result, jealous individuals act in ways which are even more disruptive (i.e., more phone calls, snooping, invasive questions, pouting, and so forth).

Very quickly, the following pattern becomes the norm: jealous individuals become more jealous while their partners begin to hide and conceal more of their activities, thoughts, and feelings. Over time this pattern of behavior can become a source of conflict—pulling many couples even farther apart. And if this pattern is not broken, partners often turn to someone outside of their relationship for love and understanding.

How to Deal with a Jealous Lover

A better way to deal with an insecure and overly suspicious partner is to deal with his or her fears and anxieties directly.

Making God the foundation of your relationship/marriage

                                                 
I know some people will disagree with me on this one,because most people I have met do not deem it necessary to get God involved in their love life. I'll like to make you see reasons why you need to make God the foundation of your love life.

• Finding the right person

You are single and you met this really nice Lady/guy,you begin to observe their characters in order for you to approach,but how will you know if this person is the right person for you. Most times,a person may seem right but may not be right for you. The best thing to do is to get God involved in this situation, pray about it,let God lead you right.

• Regular arguments and fights

Your partner suddenly developed some strange attitudes/characters, you approach them about it but still no improvement,with this,this leads to you being unhappy with your partner,then fights may come up. Fighting,screaming, daily arguments with your partner cannot change things,it only leads to more fights. The best thing to do is to let God take control,God created your partner,he is best for the job.

• Financial issues

Your partner doesn't have a job,and is having financial issues and you are not capable enough to assist. People will always promise and fail,but one person who can help in this situation is "GOD"(as long has you have faith).
  When you make God the foundation of your relationship/married life,trust me,its gonna be awesome. Because he will lead you both on the right path and wont lead you astray,when storms come upon your love life,you will still be strong,why? Because God is always there for you.
Ladies always pray for your man,wife's always pray for your husbands, single ladies pray for that special man coming your way soon and guys should please do the same. Pray together has a couple if you have the chance because"A couple that prays together stays together".

Ciara and Russell Wilson in England for their wedding

  According to TMZ singer Ciara and her fiancé, NFL player Russell Wilson will be getting married by the weekend in England. The couple is currently in England with 100 of their close friends and family members. The photo above, which looks like they already got married, with Ciara wearing white, is supposedly a photo of the couple on their way to a pre-wedding dinner.
Ciara supposedly had a bachelorette party in Vegas 2 weeks ago.

OMG, is Amber Rose now dating another Khloe Kardashian's ex, French Montana?

The mother of one was spotted hopping into French Montana's car and leaving with him after the two partied at Nobu with other celebrities on 4th of July. There are now rumours that Amber is dating French, who used to date Khloe Kardashian.
But here's the thing, what makes this whole thing weird. Amber dated Kanye West, Kanye married Kim. Amber is rumoured to be dating French, who used to date Khloe. Khloe used to date James Harden and James Harden once dated Amber. Amber briefly dated Trey Songz, who is now rumored to be dating Khloe. Looks like Khloe and Amber have same taste in men!

love and obsession

 Love and obsession,hmmmm,most people think its the same thing. Let me analyse it to the best of my knowledge. When you're in love with someone,you love the person with all your heart and you won't wanna hurt the person,you don't possess them and you don't make them feel entitled to you. But when you're obsessed,its a little more dangerous or scary,you do anything to ensure the person likes you,you make them feel entitled to you, it feels like they are being g suffocated.
In some scenerios,when you're in love with the person and it doesn't work out,you let the person go because you still want good for the person even though it doesn't work out but when you're obsessed"IT MOST WORK OUT"

Are you interested or already involved with a person born in july.Read this........

The two zodiac signs associated with the month of July are Cancer and Leo. People born from July 1st to July 22nd are members of the Cancer zodiac sign. A person born under Cancer can be identified by their emotional and intimate nature.

        CANCER LOVE AND SEX

Cancer is a very emotional sign, so for them feelings are most important when it comes to love and romance. Gentle and caring, Cancer will show off its sensibility without any thinking. For partners, they always choose a person who is able to understand them better. Superficial or too ambitious partner is not welcome for a person born under the sign of Cancer.

Cancer is loyal and dedicated towards their partners, and will bestow its love and affection by showering material gifts and verbal appreciation. Cancer is a dedicated partner who loves children and marriage.

              HOW TO ATTRACT THE CANCER WOMAN

Cancer personality can be quite complicated, but deep inside they are home-loving and conservative people. Cancer women are very vulnerable and emotional and not likely to quickly fall in love. However, once you earn her trust, the Cancer woman will be passionate and loyal partner. If you want to seduce her, you will need to be the one to make the first move.

Despite her cautious nature, she is very erotic and enjoys expressing her feelings in a sexual manner. So, if you have the patience to win her heart, you will be very well rewarded.

The woman born under the Cancer zodiac sign is probably not the right choice for a man who wants to have only a sex partner for a one-night stand. However, if you are a romantic man and you believe in true love, then you should definitely focus your attention on a Cancer woman. If you want to seduce her, you will need to be romantic and in tune with what she's thinking and feeling even if she does not tell you.

To keep the Cancer woman in your life, you must be faithful, respectful and honest. The woman born under the Cancer star sign will never forget a betrayal.

          HOW TO ATTRACT THE CANCER MAN

The first thing you need to know about the Cancer man is this: you will probably have to make the first move. He suffers from a fear of rejection, so if you want to seduce him you will have to do all of the legwork.

Cancer men are complex individuals, who are very sensitive, shy and protective. In order to seduce a Cancer man, you will need to make him feel safe. A man born under the Cancer astrology sign are usually attracted to women who are feminine. Subconsciously, he wants to find a woman who fits his image of the ideal wife and mother.

Some of the negative Cancer traits include moodiness, pessimism, and clinginess. However, they also have many positive traits, so some of the positive Cancer characteristics include creativity, spontaneity, loyalty, and generosity. The Cancer man is an emotional person, who loves to take care of other people.

Make him feel needed, because the Cancer likes to take on the traditional male role of a protector. They desperately crave affection, so offer him a kind word about his skills, his appearance, or the way he makes you feel. However, keep in mind that your compliments should always be subtle and genuine. The Cancer man tends to be emotional, so he is typically attracted to women who are equally expressive in their emotions.

WELCOME TO JULY

Welcome people to the 7th month of the year 2016,wow we'av passed half of the year(God is Great). Just want to appreciate everyone who has been viewing this blog. Thank you people for taking your time to View my blog,click on the links you see on Facebook,some of you even take time to share the post with your friends. Thank you all,May God bless you all and make this month be a good one for you and your family.AMEN