How to win her back

To get her back isn't going to be very easy you need to be at the top of your game and you need God's intervion because if it's not meant to be, you can try and try and still will not get her back.
Also, you have to make her want you, show how much you've changed, and then make the move.

Give her some space. 

• The first thing you need to do is give the girl some space. If you start knocking down her door and calling her every five minutes she'll only pull further away from you. The amount of space and time you give her depends on what happened when you tried to date her.
• If you ended a serious relationship, you'll need to give her more space than you would if you had just dated a few times.
• If you see her socially, be polite and say hi, but make it clear that you're not going to bother her.
• If your relationship ended because she was so jealous that you were always hanging around with other girls, then you shouldn't make her jealous or she'll just be reminded of the reason why things didn't work out between you. But if your relationship ended because she thought you were just too into her, or that she was bored by you, then making her jealous is a great move. Here's how to do it:

If you're on speaking terms, casually mention other girls. You can mention one girl a few times, leading her to wonder, "Who is this girl?" Or you can just talk about a group of girls, mentioning that you were at a party that was filled with mostly girls but that you were "okay with that."
Don't overdo it.
If she hears you talking about other girls and sees you flirting with others, she may want you even more, but if you're all over every girl at every party, you may look desperate or sleazy.

Showing Her How Much You've Changed
 If you broke up because she felt that you didn't give her enough affection or time or that you spent too much time flirting with other women, it's time to do the exact opposite and to make yourself available to her and have no other women on your radar.
...Show her that your schedule is free and that you're up for hanging out whenever. She'll no longer have to hang out with you during the one hour you're free.

• Don't make her jealous. In your case, you should stay away from the other ladies as much as possible to show that you only have eyes for her.
• Take the time to listen. If she thought you didn't care about her feelings before, maintain eye contact and let her talk without interrupting.
• If you hurt her, apologize. If you really want her back, you have to be the man and apologize for what went wrong. If she was hurt by you, she'll want to stay away from you for fear of getting hurt again. So man up and tell her you made a mistake.

Make sure to do this in person. It won't do if you just send her a text message or an e-mail; it has to be in person otherwise she will see that you are not very serious about this apology and so she won't take it seriously either. So own up and go apologise for what you did to her.

• Don't be disappointed if she doesn't accept your apology right away. If she doesn't accept it, she's probably still working through what happened but still appreciates your effort. Just say, "You can't blame me for trying" instead of arguing her into accepting your apology.
• Show what a better, more mature person you've become. She should be able to see how much you've changed without you having to say it yourself or to convince her that you're completely different. Face it -- many girls are more mature than their male counterparts, so wow her with your ability to be rational and mature.
• Don't be jealous. Don't ask her about that guy she's been talking to; this will only encourage her to talk to him more, and will make you look insecure for caring.

Open up to her,Tell her how you feel. 
Once she wants you a bit more and can see that you're a different person, it's time to stop playing games and to tell her how you really feel. How else can you get the ball rolling? If it ended badly, she's not going to ask you to pick things up again, so you need to get your act together and open up.

• Tell her at the right place and time. Pick a time when she's not too busy and you can be alone, ideally at night or in a semi-secluded location.
• Maintain eye contact when you tell herNo looking around, no checking your phone.No more Mr. Tough Guy. It's time to be open and honest and to share your true feelings.

First, acknowledge what went wrong, and apologize for it again if you haven't already. Then, tell her how much you've changed and how much you'd love to give it another try.
Say, "I can't believe what an idiot I've been. You were the best thing that ever happened to me and I really screwed it up. Let me make it up to you."
Keep the girl this time.
If everything goes on well,Remind yourself what happened the last time, and vow not to do it again.
Look at it as starting fresh. You don't have to rehash the old relationship, but work on building something completely new and much better.
Relax. Just enjoy being with the girl instead of worrying about not screwing up again all the time.

Ariana Grande has moved on to the next ...check out who her new boyfriend is

Ariana Grande spotted kissing her new boyfriend, another rapper! 
Singer Ariane Grande who ended her relationship with rapper Big Sean in 2015 was pictured kissing another rapper, Mac Miller, said to be her new boyfriend at Japanese restaurant, Katsu-Ya in LA on Sunday night. According to TMZ, the pair could not keep their eyes or lips away from each other..

The power couple;Beyonce and JayZ

If you've been lucky enough to catch Beyonce on her Formation Tour in the UK this week, you'll have experienced much of Lemonade IRL. And one thing that has emerged from her UK leg so far is her focus on redemption and forgiveness.

It's a far cry from the anger and hurt of her 2016 visual album, which was widely interpreted as a comment on Jay Z's alleged cheating. So has Beyonce forgiven him? We spoke to celebrity biographer J Randy Taraborelli, who said the couple are actually back on track after a rough couple of years.

"I've heard from many people [in her circle] that her and Jay Z want to have more children. They're very happy right now, and they [have been putting] in the work to have a long and successful relationship," Randy told heat magazine.

"They're not going to throw away that kind of investment. The 16 years they've put into that relationship, they are not going to throw that away overnight."

In fact, they're even looking to make a fresh start by moving from LA to New Orleans, planning a joint album and tour AND want to start trying for a sibling for Blue Ivy, four, say our sources.

Epic birthday/proposal...you need to watch this

On www.bellanaija.com/weddings RIGHT NOW!
Epic birthday proposal planned by @lovebugsng 💍💎💍
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Thinking she was dressed up for her free birthday photoshoot given by the resort... Little did Mabel @wakiesdoll know that she would get the surprise of her life.... A flashmob and a proposal in waiting from her groom, Ejike @awakeawake.

Want to see the video and photos?... head to BN weddings for the full story of Ejike's Flashmob Proposal to Mabel? Link in Bio.
You will most likely smile your way through it all ☺️
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Dance Team: Hidden Language Dance Crew
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Gift Box & Talking Card: @loveboxcoy
Cake: @thebiracialbaker
Frames & Printing: @theimagekitchen
Video: @timmydavies_
Photography: @jopstudios
Location: @eperesort
Proposal Planner: @lovebugsng

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Pre-wedding photos of Olakunbi Oyelese & Lanre Tomori

Fashion designer Olakunbi Oyelese and her man, Lanre Tomori, will be having their traditional and white wedding this weekend. The couple are already legally married. See another photo after the cut..

K Michelle and her man loved up in new photos

Singer K Michelle who announced at her concert a couple of weeks ago that she is in a steady relationship with a Doctor and planning to start a family with him, has finally revealed his face. She calls him Dr. Sims and they seem to be in love with each other. More photos after the cut..

more pictures from kelvin harts honeymoon

Cute couple

So sad...Woman runs mad during her wedding introduction ceremony

Shocking news of woman who ran mad during her wedding introduction ceremony has gone viral!
According to reports, the incident happened yesterday, August 20 in Uganda. The beautiful bride-to-be was dancing with her man only to suddenly go wild, struggling with family to remove her clothes.
Check out more photos.....

This is so sad, a day meant to be a day of joy ended up to be a day of shame and sadness... I pray for those that getting married soon or later that your day of happiness will be turned to sadness iJN

Skuki Peeshaun Releases His First Ebook For Ladies Titled ‘How To Make Your Man Fall In Love With You Over & Over Again’

If you are a single woman between the ages of 18 and 40, then this is a MUST read for you!
Peeshaun of Skuki, has released his first ebook titled ...
 HOW TO MAKE YOUR MAN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

The book dishes out valid relationship tips for women from a man’s point of view.
He recently has a relationship web series tagged PGGC, which stands for Peeshaun’s Guy Girl Code.
To read this ebook for free simply visit...
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Bachelorette Stars Desiree Harsock and Chris Siegfried Reveal They're Expecting a Baby Boy

 Desiree Hartsock and Chris Siegfried , who found love on the ninth season of The Bachelorette , announced Friday that they'll be expecting a son just around the corner. The married couple confirmed the exciting news on Instagram with an absolutely adorable announcement that featured a baseball with "It's A Boy" written across it as well as their precious pooch.
"We are so excited to share that we will be having a little baby BOY!" Hartsock
wrote . "Our hearts are so full of love for our little man already and we can't thank you all enough for the extra love you've shared during this special time!"
Desiree has documented much of her experience as a mom-to-be on Instagram, recently revealing that "the countdown is officially on and the prep work finally begins" as she reached the 31-week mark. Not to mention the former reality TV star's stylish maternity wardrobe—Hartsock makes it all look too easy!
Source: E news

Sean "Diddy" Combs and Cassie Are on a Break

Sean "Diddy" Combs and Cassie have not closed the chapter on their relationship just yet.

The LAPD confirmed to E! News that a domestic incident report involving the two was filed Wednesday, which TMZ said occurred after Diddy and Cassie had a heated argument while in a car in Beverly Hills. According to the outlet, the rapper took Cassie's phone before returning it to her later that day. Authorities were then called to the R&B singer's home, where the report was taken.

As speculation mounted that Diddy, 46, took his longtime girlfriend's phone over suspicion that she was cheating on him, a source debunks the notion, telling E! News, "Cassie would never cheat on Diddy, though. She just wishes things were better with them. It's always up and down."

Instead, the couple has decided to take a break from their relationship, a turn that the insider adds is not a first for the musical pairing.

"They are taking another break now. He loves her so much so likely it won't be a long break. He always finds a way of coming back to her," the source continued.

Cassie, 29, was initially signed to Diddy's Bad Boy Records back in the early 2000s, and after years of speculation that the duo's relationship had taken a turn for the romantic, Cassie and Diddy finally confirmed their exclusivity in 2012. They've openly denied engagement rumors on two different occasions, and have since maintained a relatively private union over the years.

Diddy is a father to six children, none of whom belong to his on-again, off-again beau.

Source:E news

How to survive a bad break up

It's always hard going through a breakup,especially when you've loved that person with all my heart and have dreamed of the spending the rest of your life together.A friend of mine who was going through a very tough break up almost killed herself, she had cut her arm with knife by the time I ran in and stopped her...I know must people will see that has stupid but that was the solution she thought was right at that point in time, but at the end of the day she grew stronger and was happy again and is even in a better relationship....

Here are ways to survive a really bad breakup

1) Accept that the pain is normal.

 As the old song says, “Breaking up is hard to do.” Scientists have even shown that romantic rejection activates the same pathways in the brain that physical pain does. It hurts when you break up with someone, and it’s completely natural to feel upset about it.

Some psychologists estimate that about 98% of us have experienced some form of unrequited love, whether it’s an unreturned crush or a nasty breakup. Knowing that you’re not alone probably won’t heal your broken heart, but it could make the pain easier to bear.

2)Let it out.

 Don’t pretend you’re fine. Denying or minimizing your emotions -- like telling yourself “I’m really fine” or “It’s no big deal” -- will actually make them worse in the long run. You have to process how you’re feeling so you can move past it.

Cry your eyes out if you feel like it. Crying can actually be therapeutic when you’re upset. It can reduce feelings of stress, anxiety, and anger. So go ahead, grab some tissues and wail your heart out if it helps.

3)Write about your feelings.

 Expressing how you feel, rather than bottling it all up or trying to ignore it, will help you accept that you’re in pain now, but it won’t always be this way.  Writing about your feelings openly and honestly can help you understand them.

The first step to coping with post-breakup loneliness is taking some time for introspection and reflection. 

Take 20 minutes a day for three days to let loose and write about your deepest thoughts and feelings about this relationship. Reflect on your experience while you were in the relationship, how you feel in the aftermath of the breakup, or what your worries are now that you’re not in a relationship anymore.

4)Repeat positive self-affirmations to yourself. 

Breakups can really do a number on your self-confidence. Showing yourself a little daily kindness can remind you that you are an awesome person with a lot to offer the right person. The next time negative thoughts about your breakup show up -- and they probably will, at least for a while -- challenge them with one of these helpful affirmations:

I am worth love and care, and there are people who recognize that

I’m upset right now, but it won’t last forever

Part of my pain is caused by brain chemistry, which I can’t control

My thoughts and feelings are not facts

I love and honor myself

5)Get support. 

When you break up with someone, it’s natural to feel isolated or disconnected.Reaching out to friends and loved ones will help you cope with these feelings and remind you that you have plenty of love in your life.

Talk with your friends. Share your feelings with them. Ask them about their own breakup experiences. They can offer you support and advice.

If your friends offer you feedback or advice, try to be open and listen to them. You don’t have to take their advice, but accept the spirit in which it’s offered.

6)Have fun. 

This may seem next to impossible, especially if you’re still raw after a breakup. However, having fun is great medicine for your brain. It reduces feelings of anger and increases your feelings of positivity. So go out with friends. See a movie. Go disco dancing. Sing karaoke. Do things you enjoy and let loose a little. You’ll feel better for it.

Laughter, it turns out, really is the best medicine. It releases endorphins, which are your body’s natural mood elevators. Laughter even increases your body’s ability to tolerate pain.

7)Have fun

This may seem next to impossible, especially if you’re still raw after a breakup. However, having fun is great medicine for your brain. It reduces feelings of anger and increases your feelings of positivity.So go out with friends. See a movie. Go disco dancing. Sing karaoke. Do things you enjoy and let loose a little. You’ll feel better for it.

Laughter, it turns out, really is the best medicine. It releases endorphins, which are your body’s natural mood elevators. Laughter even increases your body’s ability to tolerate pain.

Check out this mind blowing wedding decorations

Check out this mind blowing wedding decors...wow whenever God says its time for me to get married, mine will take place on mars(just kidding)

Congratulations to all the couples getting married today....Happy married life 

love doesnt care who you are or where you're from...check out this couple

This wedding took place on the 18th of August.
According to the user who shared these photos, the lovely Nigerian lady and her Chinese heart throb Garin tied the knot in a traditional ceremony about three months ago and it was great.
The pretty bride was all smiles, even though the groom seems camera shy. The event was well attended by friends and family, and the expatriate community rocking our traditional Ankara with panache. See more lovely photos below ...

Wish them a very happy married life