Is she trying to turn her relationship into a huge payday?

 Blac Chyna Is Demanding Serious Cash to Be on Keeping Up With the Kardashians
Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna are getting ready to put their relationship in front of cameras, and we're not just talking Snapchat anymore. The couple have reportedly been toying with the idea for a reality show practically since they first got together, but now, TMZ reports, they may come back to the family business: Keeping Up With the Kardashians .
One problem, though.
  Blac isn't willing to let the KUWTK cameras into her life unless a huge paycheck comes with it. According to sources, Blac has been meeting with the show's producers to "negotiate a minor role" on the show, but wants a whopping $1 million for it. What's more, she's demanding that her contract be "non-exclusive," meaning she and Rob are free to shop around their own reality show to other networks.

 The source is confident that Blac's demands are a non-starter, so looks like we'll have to settle for what the couple shares on the Snap for now.
Source: BET.com

My sexy pregnant wife - Article by Charly Boy

Read his article below...

I remember back in the days, when I was in the baby making business. I always admired, loved, pampered and overprotected my wife, more. That's how come I was witness to the birth of our last two girls, (now grown ass women). Yea, I loved her more each time I gave her a Big Bang belly.
She glowed more, in my eyes she was sexier,(still is). Don't know about you, but there is something sexy about pregnant women that always suggests that they should be treated and handled with tender, loving, care. They are not only special but sexy as well.
    I loved to watch her body change, her hips become wider, her butt grows bigger, her boobs become fuller, her belly is exciting, her navel is sensual; she is pleasant to look at, a full woman. Hey! hold whatever thought is brewing in your head. This was some 26yrs ago, wish we had IPhones then, I would have shared her pictures with you. She was sexy gaga. No be yoke!
Some women are unlovable when they are pregnant. Forget the ones who are forming self-reliant because this pushes the man away making him irrelevant. Some men too can be an ass when it comes to taking care of their pregnant woman. However, most pregnant women love to be pampered, she wants her man to treat her like a Queen. Men love to be needed, they love to feel important, they love being the hero, it is a big turn on for a lotta men. Walaiii. Many pregnant women radiates a glow. Their skin, their body, their smile, their voice lights up because life is growing inside them.
      She is beautiful, desiring to love and be loved. My guy, when your woman is pregnant, celebrate her new form of sexiness, don’t chase after other women. She is pregnant and sexy; but most important, she is carrying your child, a child you manufactured when her sexy self gave you great sex! Hummmmm!!! Freaky Dicky. This is for all the mothers to be, who are right now with Big Bang Belly. Just to say, you all are beautiful. If you feel like sharing Gods creative work with us by way of a decent sexy picture, go ahead and show the world your glow, as long as your man no mind, the rest can jump into the gutter. Keep glowing Sexy Mama.

Joke of the day

Letter from Sikira  Ibadan Bae to her boo

Dear Michael, longs time low see. If they say is water that will cook fish finish, I will not belif it. Is this how other lofers are behafe to their Bae ? U haf refus to call me for the past one mount. and if I tries ur number, mtn will be say your numba is unreach, is unreach.

You refus to fisit me me efen when u ear that my father haf contract guinea worm. Is this how to treat ur in-laws? I know we haf not marry but I know uer my horseband from heafen. Efri day when I am wake up, uer the first person I see. Roshida tell me for last week that she see u with one girl in front of Mr big. She efen tell me that u hug together. If u think u can leaf me uer decive urself. Michael, Michael, how many times I call u? It will not be better for anybody that wan to scatter our middle.


Any way the mane purpose of my letter is  to tell u that I  haf tooken in for u. I go for testing yesterday to confarm it. My grandmoomi talk that it be like am carrying twins. I haf been fery fery happy since yesterday. I haf give the twins name o......sifau and musibau. I don't sure if u like it. Come n see me tomorrow bcos I am fery weak now.

 Silifa, my younger sister, cames home with her boyfriend yesterday.if u see d boy,very beautiful but not up to you sha.he also get a swagger. I want u to get one too.

 Left I forget, please dont forget to send the money for the aso-ebi for anti taiba's naming o. The color is red and yellow.Red for the 'buba', and yellow for the 'iro'. They said we can use any color for the 'gele'. But me I want to use blue. I will now wear that my green curf shoe. I cannot wait to send you the photo.

My lof, ten is happening in this world o. dont say I am the one that tell you o.i hear that it's not anti taiba's horseband that gif her the belle that she use to born the pregnancy. True true, the baby is not resemble him. But what consign me?
I have tell efribody that my boyfriend is a dokto and they eager to see u.

Yours frightfully. .Sikira
#top of d money to u all#

Ways to mend a broken heart

The death of a loved one, a spiraling relationship, a major change in your day-to-day life, or a break-up. Whatever the cause of your heartbreak, it is real and it is truly one of the most painful sensations anyone can ever feel.It is very difficult to move forward from such crippling experiences, but there are always steps to take when your broken heart is ready to be healed.
Time.
   Just like visible wounds, your spiritual and emotional wounds will fade into scars when given an ample amount of time to do so. Don't rush yourself, but also, don't reopen wounds that have begun to scar. Practice patience and take care of your mind and body and you will find your pain slowly subsiding away as each day passes.
Forgiveness    
     Holding on to grudges and resenting those who have wronged you continues to open up wounds that are doing their best to heal. With forgiveness comes a softened heart and weight off your shoulders. Choosing to forgive others is what will truly heal your broken heart, and if needs be, learn to forgive yourself for your own mistakes. Your burden will be made light.
  Faith      
     Faith is a difficult concept to completely grasp, because is the art of believing without seeing. It is holding on to hope that God is a constant presence in your life, and he will never allow you to endure your troubles alone. He is the one person who knows EXACTLY how you feel and truly understands you. If you turn to both him and God, healing will surely come to you.
  Control
     Find what makes you happy and pursue it. Be aware of the many opportunities, beautiful people and wonderful aspects you have been blessed with in your life. Find something in your life every single day that you are grateful for. It is often the smallest moments of kindness and love that have the greatest impact on our lives.

Is Kendall Jenner now dating Rapper A$AP Rocky?

Kendall Jenner has broken up with her rumored basketballer boyfriend Jordan Clarksonand is now dating rapper Asap Rocky?That's what the US Weekly magazine isreporting.

According to the magazine, Kendall Jenner is “full-on dating” rapper A$AP Rocky, and the relationship is “the real deal” as the 20 year old supermodel is going the extra mile to make the relationship work.

 Read the report after the cut.
Kendall Jenner is “full-on dating” rapper A$AP Rocky, a source confirms to Us Weekly.
 “It’s the real deal,” says the insider of the pair, who first sparked rumors of a hookup when he attended her PacSun launch in NYC February 8.

Unlike with her on-off flings with L.A. Lakers guard Jordan Clarkson and former One Direction singer Harry Styles, the source adds, the supermodel, 20, is going the extra mile to see Rocky, who has been previously linked to fellow top model Chanel Iman and Iggy Azalea.

On July 24, she was spotted cheering on the “L$D” MC during his set at NYC’s Panorama Festival and met up with the music producer for a late night dinner date at Blue Ribbon Brasserie in Soho.Just one week later, she brought him to her sister Kylie’s 19th birthday party at the Nice Guy in West Hollywood, where they acted affectionate and snuck out the back door together.

A pal of the Estée Lauder spokeswoman says she loves that she and Rocky have the fashion world in common. “They’re both major players,” says the friend, noting the 27-year-old face of Dior Homme has collaborated with high-end designers like J.W. Anderson and Guess. The source adds: “They have lots to talk about!”
Back in June, the stylish duo were spotted having dinner together at L’ Avenue restaurant in Paris during Menswear Fashion week and ended the night dancing to Rihanna and Nicki Minaj songs at the Cartel Club.

Photo: GT the Guitarman and wife expecting their first child

The couple had their traditional wedding in April this year. Congrats to them.Am so happy for them

Photo of the day

These babies are the cutest I have ever seen... Pray for all women awaiting children that the Almighty God will bless your womb and make your bear beautiful kids of your own IJN

Nollywood actress Foluke Daramola-Salako penned down her thoughts about motherhood, marriage, domestic violence, breastfeeding and childbirth in a recent Instagram post.

This is what she said:
“Raw and unedited picture of a mother breastfeeding her 2weeks old baby after a C- section delivery.

This is priceless

 This is what some mothers go through. The pains. The stretch mark. The shapeless body. The flappy tummy. Some of us use corset and body magic to hide it. Some of us use push up bra to feel sexy but when we get into the bathroom, naked and see the real body, we remind ourselves that we produced a creature, a human being. Please women, learn to love yourself. Love your body. Motherhood is a beautiful thing. I pray that those trying for a child will get pregnant.Men, learn to love your wives. What we go through isn’t easy. We don’t need you to misbehave, we don’t want you to cheat on us. We don’t want you to beat us. We don’t want you to deny us our right. All we need is love , transparency, care and support. After all these suffering some men without conscience hit their wives. Some don’t care if she has eaten . Some even abandon her to cater for the baby. Some spend more on their girlfriend forgetting they have a nursing wife at home.On judgement day, I wonder the excuse you will give God for maltreating your wife.Some men even have the guts to tell their wives that she is not a woman just because she delivered through CS. I believe a true woman is the one who had her child(ren) through surgery. She has to go through pains. Serious pains. She has to deny herself food for days at least 3days. She can’t eat normal food for a month. She can’t even bath herself well. Unlike the vagina birth. Men, no matter the method of delivery treat her like a queen. For a mother and child to come out alive is God’s grace. Pregnancy and Labour is between life and death. Learn to respect mothers.

#respectmothers

#saynotoviolence

#mothersarepriceless

Jhoy has spoken”

Uche Jombo Rodriguez Talks About Relationship and Marriage .

Ever since Nollywood actress Uche Jombo Rodriguez got married to her American/Puerto Rican hubby, Kenny Rodriguez, people have been curious to know what her previous relationship was like.

In an exclusive chat, Uche finally opened up on her dating history in an exclusive chat. In the chat, she surprisingly discloses that before her marriage to her white hubby, she had never dated anyone of Nigerian origin.

She said:

“Before I got married, I had always dated people who lived outside Nigeria. As a result, being married to someone who lives abroad does not seem bizarre. I didn’t plan to marry someone who lives abroad. Rather, it just happened.”

The actress went on to give a few words of advice to single ladies, telling them to avoid being pressured into marriage until they were ready.

“Marry because you know this is what you want to do once in your lifetime. You have to be married to someone you can do everything with. Don’t marry because people say it is time to get someone. Get married for yourself. The pressure today will not be worth the ache tomorrow.”

The duo of Uche and Kenny got married in 2012 and welcomed

Matthew Rodriguez , their first child together in May 2015.

A piece of advice for side chicks

If he's willing to sleep with you, but not willing to make you his main girl , that's because he doesn't care about you. When he's telling his a wife or girlfriend that you were "just sex," that's literally how he viewed your relationship. If you knew he was taken and still went after him, you have no one to blame for your heartbreak but yourself.

For Couples and thoes about To Get Married

FOR OUR MEN:
Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2yrs old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times.
You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say "I am sorry for the argument".
That's women for you. Every brother needs to study in the university of women before getting married, read books about them, learn what the Bible says about them and you will hardly have a problem with them.
Though there may still be some challenges, because you're both from different background and your imperfections are bound to stand.
So, read books about marriage, an ideal home, child upbringing, importance of marriage and the likes. Don't just jump into marriage with an empty head about matrimony, you will have problems.
How many men can tolerate their wives nagging let alone shouting? It's said that, you should be quiet when your spouse is angry, when one person is fire, the other person should be water.
Brothers, when your wife steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly, its not her fault. So why shout at her over every small mistake?
As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty. Some men are feminist; Do "hide and seek" with your wife, sing poems for your wife in the garden or inside the house, even if she is teasing you.
Assist her in the house chores, pound yam, fetch water, don't make her look like your maid. Bathe together, wake her up for prayers, swim with her if it's available, cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesn't know how to cook. Cooking is not the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a feminine duty.
Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her at times, call her from work/ school, text her, write "I love you" in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her cupboard. Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper her and play with her hair. Always tell her, she's beautiful and that you're happy to have her as your partner.
All these are part of being romantic...When a woman tells you that you are not romantic. It means you are not doing all these things, its not the romance in the bedroom she is talking about. That's why, you brothers have to study "women's language" it's a 10 year course.
FOR LADIES:
It is part of your duty to be romantic too. Your shyness shouldn't get to your marital life and that doesn't mean you should be shy to express your love to your husband.
Send sweet text messages to your husband at work, sometimes even if you are in the room discussing with your husband, still be chatting with him on social media (Facebook, Whatsapp, Viber, Imo, bbm etc) even though he is right in front of you, it's fun and romantic! Discuss how lovely he is on your facebook timeline, this will trip him a lot.
You should be chatting with your husband, not other men on social media networks.
Buy flowers for him. When eating, give him the biggest meat. At times, bake cake for him to surprise him. Ladies, use your soft voice to sing for him, be creative, a poem like (twinkle, twinkle lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up above my world so high, like a diamond in my heart).
Sing poems for him, no shyness is allowed. Don't just be welcoming your husband with an angry face because there is no money in the house, God is our provider. Don't welcome your husband with your body smelling maggi, don't only play with your husband when he receives his salary.
Welcome him with a warm hug always, and when he is going to work, pray to God to keep him safe and for him to be successful. Support him, advise him, wipe his tears, be grateful to him, it's not easy to be a man, when you see his faith waxing cold, encourage him, don't threaten him that you will seek for divorce, don't compare him with other men, buy him gifts, wash his clothes, sing for him, praise him in a way that he wouldn't think of an alternative, be the best cook, wash his car if u have the time, dress him up, pamper him when he is sick.
Wake him with a peck and don't complain about his snoring habit.
Let kiss be the messenger between you. Read books on intimacy, don't learn it from what you see in movies..
Most of what you see there are not real. Call your husband pet names. Though you can also call him by his name even if he is 30yrs older than you, as far as he is comfortable with it.
Remember that, God said, men are the protectors and maintainers of women. So respect him and honour him even if he is younger than you. Marriage isn't a bed of roses but a bed of sacrifice. It's said that, there is nothing better for two people who love each other than marriage.
To fall in love is a disease and its cure is to marry the person one is in love with. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance and you find out you still care for that person.
Finally, married men, divide your nights into 3: one for yourself (sleeping), one for your wife and one for your Lord.. That's the best night one can ever have.

Here are reasons why you are still single

Are you single and constantly thinking: “Why is it that I don’t have a man yet certain people just seem to hop (sometimes effortlessly) from one relationship to another?” Maybe it’s not the right time? Or maybe it is, but you keep practicing the wrong behaviors that always sum to the same result. Here are ten things that keep you single as shared by Paul Carrick Brunson in his book “Its Complicated” (that he has  personally witnessed with his single female clients and friends)
                 
1. You Hold On to Someone Who Isn’t Available There are many reasons someone may not be available to date. Is he separated or married? Perhaps he is living with his girlfriend? If you hold on to such a person, fully knowing that you have to share with someone else, you illustrate the lowest form of self-love, and that won’t get you where you want to go.    
 2. You Don’t Believe When He Tells You the Truth Many times, men will directly say their outlook on the relationship. They’ll say things like, “I’m not interested in anything serious” or “I don’t see myself getting married.” If you hear anything similar, don’t think you’re the one person who can and will change his perspective. Trust me; you can’t; you won’t. Moreover, you’ll just end up wasting your time and resources. You only have the power to change yourself.
 3. Are you a Toxic Date? Toxic dates are the ones who complain all the time. They are the ones who always blame you. They may always turn things around to make it someone else’s fault. They overreact to bad events. If all of this sounds familiar, “they” could be you. Toxic people are a huge energy drain. No matter how outwardly attractive or successful someone is, toxicity just isn’t sexy.
4. You Don’t Believe In Love If you honestly think you are destined to live life alone, or you are with the thought that Michelle Obama married the “last good man on earth,” you’ll be right. Why? Because our belief is our reality.
5. You Do Nothing Differently My favorite question to ask prospective clients is: “How many dates have you gone on in the last two years?” Most answer “zero.” Then my second question is always, “Are you happy with your number?” Most say no. My final question is always, “What are you doing differently to change it?” Most say “nothing.” The bottom line is this: in every aspect of our life (inclding dating), we can’t do the same old thing and expect different results.
6. You Take Bad Advice from Friends and Family I have written a full chapter on this in my book. Your friends are not relationship experts. Your loved ones often give bad advice. It’s well meaning, but awful, dating advice because they aren’t objective. Plus, they aren’t therapists or dating experts.
7. You Commit Too Soon A top dating mistake that I see my clients make often is going from casually dating someone to exclusively dating that someone within a short period. This trend is a widespread issue. Why, because it takes a good amount of time to observe their values and it you also don’t know someone until you have witnessed them in a time of adversity.
8. You’re Lowering Your Standards to Compete If you are concerned that because there are “so many women” vying for the man you are interested in you must “compete” and do things, not within your value structure (like have sex earlier than planned), stop it. The moment you bend on your boundaries is the moment you begin to bully yourself.
 9. You’re Adhering to Ultimatums Love is not selfish. Love doesn’t come with strings attached. If you have to give in to get him, get out.
10. Obsessing over “Your List.” Do you chase after preferences? (You know, like he must be 6-foot tall and have perfect teeth?) We all have preferences, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. The problem is when we don’t secure our needs first. These are what I call in my book, “your relationship vitals” (values, personality type, non-starters, and attraction traits) and become obsessed with them opposed to what’s on a list of frills. Are you guilty of any of these too? Search yourself ladies and let’s act right!

source: www.kamdora.com

Things every husband wants his wife to QUIT doing

Here is a list of things you can and should quit today to save your marriage from a lot of trouble down the road.

1. Quit saying, "You always ... " or "You never ... "

"You always ruin my plans," and, "You never care about my needs or the kids," are examples of harmful and toxic accusations that can easily degrade your husband's self-esteem.

Starting a conversation with an accusation ignites a fight-or-flight response. It hurts his feelings enough to either make him shut down and hide from the issue or come back fighting.

The best thing to do in this tricky situation is to quit accusing and start working on finding solutions together.

2. Quit comparing your husband to people from the past

Let the past stay in the past. Constantly bringing up previous relationships destroys your husband's self-esteem because it shows him where you are investing your thoughts. Thinking and living in a past relationship is a sign to your husband you are not enjoying the relationship you are in now.

3. Quit acting like you're just hanging in there

Quit making passive comments to neighbors and friends about the tentative and rocky state of your relationship. Mentioning you are "just hanging in there" or "just staying afloat" is negative and harmful to your husband's self-esteem. It diminishes his faith in your marriage. A man wants to know he is in a supportive and stable relationship, not a relationship you are just trying to endure.

4. Quit bringing up skepticism

Never bring up the things you were skeptical about before you got married to your husband. It is upsetting and discouraging to hear your spouse had reservations about committing her life to you and may still have skepticism today.

5. Quit blaming your child's quirky and strange traits on your husband

It is hurtful to blame the negative or less-desirable traits of your child on your husband's genes or behavior. Do not blame your child's misbehavior and naughty antics on something out of your husband's control.

6. Quit degrading your in-laws

In-laws can drive a thick wedge between husband and wife. But, with proper communication between partners, the negative effects can be minimized. Quit talking poorly of your husband's parents.

Instead, talk to your husband about the specific issues you have in your relationship with your in-laws and try to work out a solution together that equally respects both parties involved.

7. Quit addressing his failures

Your husband has flaws today and he will still have flaws tomorrow; no one is perfect. Quit addressing your husband's shortcomings every day. Instead, try having a nightly meeting where you both discuss what went well with the day and what could go better tomorrow.

8. Quit focusing on your social media life

Your husband does not want you to only be happy when you are posing for a picture. He wants you to be happy all the time.

9. Quit dragging your parents and family into your marital problems

Focus on fixing your marriage with the help of your spouse and not with the help of your family. Dragging other individuals into the conflict will only make the situation worse and can create harbored feelings of resentment and mistrust.

10.Quit being ungrateful

Every individual has their own unique love language. Some offer service; others give physical touch, quality time, gifts or words of affirmation. Although your husband may not match your exact love language, take the time to recognize his language.

Understanding how he shows you love will help you find more reasons to be appreciative for all the sacrifices he makes for you and your family.

Source:Family share

Understanding the need for patience in relationships

 Whoever said 'patience is a virtue'knew what he was talking about. Knowing the importance of patience and how to keep it can transform your relationship for the better.

  In every relationship, fights and arguments occur but how do you solve this issues between you and your significant other?. Most times in relationships, love is not enough, we need trust,communication, honesty and most importantly 'patience'.There are a lot of relationships ending on a bad note because the couple were impatient.

 Firstly, you should understand the fact that every mature dating relationship needs a lot of patience,there is no one perfect in this world,everybody has their flaws,so its advisable to give the person some time to work on their flaws.

  Secondly, knowing your partner's dislike.In a relationship, a couple is the joining together of two different people and knowing what your partner dislikes and working on it will make a better relationship.  

For my ladies out there,My sexy ladies being patient in your relationship does not mean you are the fool. Most ladies feel if they do not talk back during arguments or insult their man when he gets them angry that makes them a fool,NO!!!. Been a virtuous woman is not bad,applying patience whenever necessary will always reduce chaos in your love life and make your man never regret that he feel in love with you.

 My men out there, I know ladies can be a handful, but keeping calm when she beings to act funny, not hitting her when she pushes you pass your breaking point, having and applying patience helps alot in every mature dating relationship.Sometimes you need to express your feelings for your partner to realise their wrong doing but without a little patience and also self control, things can get really nasty.

 According to Titus Maccius Plautus" patience is the best remedy for every trouble"People need to be mature enough to understand that age is not a criteria for forming a mature dating relationship, understanding is. Patience helps in making a lot of difference. Be patient enough to understand what the other person wants rather than harping on your own needs. Take time to understand each other and the world will suddenly be a better place to be in.