How To Tell You Might Be In The Wrong Relationship: If you've been dating seriously for months and still feel so anxious you need to re-write all your texts five times before you send them, or feel afraid of making an off-the-cuff remark or silly joke to your partner because you fear they may not like it, it might not be just because they still give you butterflies — you might just be wrong for each other, and that's why you can't relax. If the idea of being your true self around your partner fills you with anxiety well after the "getting to know you" period, you may want to investigate why
If you and your partner seem to have almost nothing in common — from your tastes in movies to your beliefs about how people should conduct themselves in relationships — you're not only going to experience needless stress; you may also have a rough time bonding. Trying to build a life together with someone who doesn't understand your jokes, your values, why you're obsessed with your job or why you love your collection of vintage Pokemon figurines can be really difficult. If you're making it work with your cartoon cat and you're happy, good for you! But if you feel like you're banging your head against the wall every time you try to make your partner see your point of view, it could be time to rethink your relationship.
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